February is made for Sagittarius. There’s lots of compatible and harmonious energy, the Sun is in Aquarius until the 19th, while Pisces season at the month’s end opens him up to his mystical and spiritual side. The Sagittarius traits are free to shine this month. He is open-minded, a natural visionary, creative and enthusiastic about life. He has lots of passion and is spontaneous, zestful, and intelligent. So, there are certain things you should know and do to attract him!
How To Attract A Sagittarius Man In February 2021
1. Be Witty And Unique
They say laughter is the best medicine; this is so true! The Sagittarius man is known for his bold and loud laugh. He’s also famous for his ability to uplift a room, connect with strangers he’s only just met, and make everyone feel good through humor. He has a gift. Every Star sign has unique traits and characteristics, but for the Sag man, it’s all in his laugh and humor. He’s witty, clever, bright, and light-hearted, and he looks for the same in a partner.
This is of course all enhanced due to Aquarius season (which lasts until the 19th). When the Sun is in Aquarius, his mental gifts and acute perceptions are lit up. The Sagittarius man thrives off laughter and intellectual connection. He wants to be stimulated mentally – he’s looking for that psychological connection and bond.
He’s also after someone unique with interesting stories. Perhaps you have travel, cultural exchange, spiritual pilgrimage, or mountain hiking experiences you wish to share? Share your stories with him!
2. Shine With Imaginative Ability
Imaginative and artistic qualities will be brought to light this month, and leading into March. Pisces is the sign of “creative genius,” the poet, painter, philosopher, musician, and artist. This emotional and intuitive, psychic and spiritually perceptive sign represents mysticism, subtle and psychic perception, and the imagination. Although not traditionally compatible romantically with the bold and fiery Archer (Sagittarius), these signs do share a mutual love of – and respect for – the Arts.
It’s important for you to show off your creativity and artistry this month. Creative talents should be placed in the spotlight – make your gifts and abilities known. Use your imagination in conversation too. Maybe tell a story in a poetic and enticing way, or speak in rhyme to seduce and blow his mind!
Randomly beginning citing Rumi or some well-known rap or hip-hop artist, or talking about amazing jazz or acoustic artists, will have his mind instantly going to “soulmate potential.” Sagittarius may be wanderlusty and free-spirited, but they have a sophisticated side too.
3. Be Spontaneous And Open-Minded
This may become a regular piece of monthly advice, but it’s only because it is of utmost importance in this Archer’s life. This guy is literally represented by the Archer shooting his arrow towards the star. This is symbolic of open mindedness, of turning one’s attention towards philosophy, higher learning, and spiritual ideals. Insight. Vision.
Spontaneity, a sense of adventure, and a love of travel and movement should all be top topics of conversation. If you really want to win his heart, make your zest and enthusiasm glow. Suggest a random trip somewhere, a lake, nature reserve, or even a midnight stroll. Spontaneity isn’t just limited to mini breaks and outings, however…
When he’s not expecting it, feel free to get kinky and/or romantic! Jump on him and seduce and tease. Start massaging his shoulders or neck, or initiate something that will get his heart racing without expectation. Unlike other guys, it’s ok to “keep him on his toes” a little, make him feel on edge as if you are waiting for the perfect time to bring the next surprise. Don’t over-do it, but do know that these are perfectly acceptable actions.
4. Let Go Of The Need To Be Right
Sagittarius needs someone non-judgmental and open-minded. He can be quite self-righteous and superior himself, yet – despite this – he dislikes self-righteousness. A bit of a contradiction, I know. The best thing you can do is to let go of the need to be right in conversations and communication. Share your viewpoints and ideas, but remain flexible and non-dogmatic.
Being right is something that should come naturally through wisdom, experience, and self-awareness. Being self-righteous is not synergetic with being correct. You will actually help and teach him through your ability to overcome this ‘flaw,’ especially if it is something you personally struggle with too (Aries, Leo, or Sag? Gemini, Libra, or Aquarius?).
So, remember to keep a flexible and easy-going mindset. By all means, inspire, motivate and educate – a Sagittarius man loves a wise woman and self-expressive communicator! Just be mindful of coming across as self-righteous or intellectual, morally or spiritually superior. It’s funny because the Sag man really does have a problem with this, it’s one of his worst personality traits. Yet when he sees it in others it really turns him off.
Help him by helping yourself. Project humility and dignity, and integrity and grace. Be charming and charismatic while knowing when to speak your truth. The New Moon in Aquarius on the 11th really brings to light his humanitarian and altruistic side, so this is the ideal time to speak your truth and share your ideas, without being obstinate. Choose perspectives and insight over opinions and judgements.
5. Ooze Confidence And Self-Esteem
Finally, it’s all about self-esteem and personal confidence for the Sagittarius man. The best way to understand what he really likes is to look at his compatibility. Aries is the ‘the Child’ of the Zodiac, with some of the worst shadow traits being immaturity, bossiness, and ego. They can be incredibly self-centered, they possess a “me, me, me!” attitude and nature. But Sagittarius loves Aries, he loves her fiery spirit and extremely self-assertive nature.
What may be ugly characteristics to others (sensitive and spiritual Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces, for example; or modest and down-to-earth Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn) are actually considered attractive to the Archer. So, you can take a page out of Aries’ book.
Self-assertion, confidence, personal authority, self-leadership, and a healthy (sometimes over-healthy!) sense of self-worth are key attributes to embody.
Final Thoughts And Key Astrological Transits
This is a very positive month with some wonderful transits and planetary alignments. There’s a New Moon in harmonious Aquarius (11th) which lights up his ability to see the big picture. He’s in tune with his compassionate and spiritual side due to the Aquarius’ influence, and it being Pisces season from the 19th.
Usually fiery and boisterous, the Sagittarius man is feeling more empathic and magnetic than usual. Fire and water create steam, so the Pisces influence has his mind jumping in different directions. Pisces is traditionally loyal; however, this sign is prone to wanderlust and more polyamorous type of love. Commitment may be tricky, but this doesn’t mean you can’t form a strong bond and connection.
Remember that the key to winning his heart is through your imagination, intuition, and creativity. Wisdom, spirituality, humanitarianism, passion, and artistic vision should all be in focus this February. Be sure to familiarize yourself with the Sagittarius man secrets to add that ‘wow’ factor to your efforts and intentions.
And let me know which of these tips you found most helpful to score your Sagittarius guy. The comments are totally anonymous!
Wishing you love and light on your journey.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,