January is a highly charged month for the Archer of the Zodiac. December 2020 saw a New Moon in his own sign on the 14th, so he will still be feeling the optimism and inspiration of both his birthday and the New Moon Solar Eclipse from the previous month. Combined with the Sun entering Aquarius on the 19th of January, a sign that is deeply compatible with Sag, this guy is very much open to new experiences and connections.
Read on to discover the top five ways to spark his interest in January.
How To Attract A Sagittarius Man In January 2021
1. Talk About Your Travel Experiences
Travel and adventure will be on this man’s mind. He is naturally free-spirited with a deep love of adventure anyway, but this is amplified due to the recent New Moon in his own sign last year.
The energies from the December 14th New Moon Solar Eclipse are strong and influencing him into the first half of January. He wants to be ‘turned on’ with stories from your own travels, his wanderlust needs inspiration!
Make sure you add some color and sparkle into your conversations with memories from your previous adventures. Talk about the self-realizations you attained when you went on that trip or hike, spark his interest with random stories from camping, temple visitations, or walking paths off the beaten track.
If you’ve travelled India, Thailand or South America – talk about this too. Anything that makes him see you as travel-loving and open-minded will make him consider you as a potential soulmate.
2. Ooze Confidence & Enthusiasm!
Sagittarius is extremely courageous, bold, fiery, and passionate. He is one of the most self-expressive signs with high energy and a lot of zest and enthusiasm for life. In short, he needs a partner who can keep up with him.
If you’re an Aries, Leo or Sagittarius you have a natural advantage, as there is a natural compatibility between you. You also favor being Gemini, Libra or Aquarius this month – or having a lot of fire and air in your chart.
The Sagittarius man is thinking about his future. He isn’t planning on staying in the same place for the rest of his life, and he has strong desires and a sense of self-worth. Assuming you are dealing with an older and wiser Sag this guy has already found his flow and groove in life. The next person he lets in will be someone he would ultimately want to share his life with. This is enhanced too due to Sagittarius typically having a reputation with being lusty, flighty, and frivolous.
In his youth and younger adult years, he’s experienced multiple love affairs and flings. He’s most likely been promiscuous at some stage in his life as well. This means he is at an age where he wants commitment and something with some depth; Sagittarius represents kindred spirits and social ties; this is a very social and outgoing personality. Thus, he is done with the frivolity of his past and is wanting a partner who connects with him on the highest of levels.
Project the persona and aura of a sophisticated, intelligent and self-empowered woman. Independence is a major turn-on!
3. Be Fearless With Your Affections And Desires
This is possibly one of the only signs where your own primality can be free to shine without rejection. In addition to what has been said above, the Sagittarius sign is still one of the most sexually active signs of the Zodiac, this guy’s glyph (astrological symbol) is the Centaur. This signifies that he’s in tune with both his higher self and mind and his primal, animal instincts.
The Centaur is half man and half animal, on the one hand he looks up – representative of philosophy, the pursuit of wisdom and higher learning, and spirituality; whilst on the other hand, he is in tune with his bodily needs and desires.
Affection and romance are integral to a Sagittarius’ love life, including dating. This isn’t saying he wants to be pounced on, but it is well known that he doesn’t like wishy-washy characters or people who play games. He’s very direct and forward.
He also wears his emotions on his sleeve and out in the open – although he wouldn’t admit this verbally. This man is looking for companionship and romance and he needs a strong and self-assured, playful and flirty woman who isn’t afraid to take control.
So, be open with your affections. Flirt, flirt, and flirt some more! Touch his hand, brush his leg, and make eye contact while showing your desires through (not too over-the-top) body movement and language. When the Sun enters Aquarius on the 19th, he will be feeling even more flirty and open-minded.
4. Be Multi-Cultural & Intelligent
Sagittarius sign is the explorer, the great adventurer who is interested in all topics, cultures and points of interest. In a social setting, he is extroverted, slightly loud, self-expressive, and friendly – people know who he is and he can usually get people laughing, even people he’s just met.
He isn’t like a Taurus or Pisces guy, for example, the earth signs being more laid-back and even romantically-inclined, and water signs being dreamier and more ethereal. The Sagittarius man is communicative and likes the spotlight.
January is great if you take pride in your communicative and intellectual abilities. Intellect isn’t just intelligence, however; it’s also intuition, self-awareness, and perceptiveness – abilities connected to the higher self. As the Archer, your potential Sag mate is all about that soul connection. There needs to be a ‘vibe.’
Talk about indigenous and tribal communities… plant medicine and shamanism… alternative and holistic health…. consciousness and spirituality… and a range of philosophies. Seduce his mind to seduce his emotions, body and spirit.
If you really want to score extra points, compliment him on his wisdom or sage-like qualities. He considers himself a sage and he loves being admired, not necessarily in a narcissistic way, but in a being seen and understood way. His mind is sharp in January and his intuitive and perceptive abilities are heightened.
Don’t be superficial though. As much as Sag can be prone to shallowness and superficiality, there needs to be some real emotion and depth in your compliments. Be honest and not afraid to speak your truth too. Fearlessness is rewarded this month.
5. Motivate Him To New Heights
Finally, he needs to be motivated this month and see some sort of inspirational qualities in you. Plane Janes won’t cut it and nor will inspiring ordinary girls.
Do you play musical instruments? Are you an amazing singer? Have you led workshops or courses in self-development, creativity or philosophy? Have you traveled abroad and internationally for your talents and/or some artistic skill? This is the sort of vibe the Sagittarius man wants!
Netflix and chill, good food and cuddles is all very well some of the time, yet his spirit needs to be stimulated too.
Final Thoughts & Key Astrological Transits
Until March, Venus is in Capricorn, meaning this usually free-spirited and frivolous Sagittarius is thinking about love and commitment more. January is a wonderful month to build a connection.
It is a ‘1 month’ numerologically, with one being the number of fresh starts, new beginnings, and self-leadership; independence and self-autonomy, stepping into personal power and authority.
Capricorn is a security-loving, down-to-earth and grounded earth sign, so the Sagittarius man is more than happy to consider something monogamous if he sees the qualities and traits shared above.
And let me know which of these tips you found most helpful to score your Sagittarius guy. The comments are totally anonymous!
Wishing you love and light on your journey.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,