Every month, the planets change signs and affect our relationships. Depending on the planetary movements, it may be tough to understand the needs and desires of the Sagittarius man. But with my tips based on the monthly energy, you can draw the attention of a Sagittarius man or improve your relationship with one in September 2020.
Attracting a Sagittarius Man in September 2020
1. Get Down to Business
After August 2020’s go-with-the-flow vibe, it’s no surprise that the Sagittarius man is over the run-around and ready to get down to business in September.
With the Sun in Virgo transiting the Sagittarius man’s tenth house of career and ambition until September 22, he is more focused on securing his future and professional goals. He won’t be too concerned about love matters this month.
However, if the Sagittarius man is already coupled or looking to date during this period, he is most attracted to the woman who knows how to handle her affairs and respond in a timely fashion.
He’s not impressed by emotional immaturity or childish mind games. Because the Sagittarius has less free time than usual, make every date and interaction count. Instead of gossiping or hounding him with useless small talk, intrigue him by sharing information he cares about.
For example, if you know that the Sagittarius enjoys comedy, film, and any other form of entertainment, suggest watching the latest film together, and then afterward, tell each other your review.
Perhaps you can plan a “work date” where you come and help him organize his office and important papers.
It turns him on when he sees you intentionally working hard to help make his life flow.
Just be mindful that the Sun in Virgo can influence the Sagittarius man to be too much of a perfectionist sometimes. So don’t be afraid to remind him of his value and worth.
Starting on September 22, when the Sun enters Libra, the Sagittarius man’s primary focus will switch back to global affairs and group connections. He won’t be hypnotized by his life goals and work.
As the Sun in Libra moves into his eleventh house of friendships and futurism until October 22, use this transit to branch out and spend time with friends.
It may be fun to go on a group date or two.
2. Have Some Fun
If your Sagittarius man has been going through a major transition in his intimate relationships, September gives him a lucky break.
With Venus in Leo highlighting the Sagittarius man’s ninth house of exploration and adventure until October 2, September 2020 is a month of fun, travel, and excitement.
Because the ninth house deals with freedom and liberation, and Leo represents passion and the Sun, the Sagittarius man is most attracted to the woman who is naturally positive and uplifting.
During this transit, he wants a woman who encourages him to be optimistic and see the glass as half-full. He doesn’t want to be around someone negative or someone who brings chaos to his life.
As a woman seeking to win the heart of a Sagittarius man, use this transit to show him a good time. Make him laugh. Leave the drama behind.
If looking for fun activities to do together, choose experiences that encourage the Sagittarius man to move his body. For example, try roller skating in the park, dancing under the stars, going for a long scenic drive, or working out together.
As a current or potential partner, it’s important to understand that in September, the Sagittarius man is heavily focused on his work, so any free time spent with his beloved is a cherished time.
If you want to catch his attention, go above and beyond with the experiences you plan for him. Take him on a journey he can’t forget. With international travel currently curbed, it may be best to find something adventurous in your city.
However, don’t skimp on the budget or the plans. Venus in Leo screams glitz and glam. Make it luxurious for him.
3. Get Involved
Although September 2020 can be a busy time for the Sagittarius man in general, Mercury in Libra is a reminder that mentally and emotionally, it’s time to level up.
With Mercury, the planet of communication transiting his eleventh house of Libra until September 27, the Sagittarius man is more “visible’ than usual. Because Libra is typically a proactive air sign, the Sagittarius man is more concerned and aware of his public image. He will enjoy networking and socializing with intellectual souls.
Romantically, Mercury’s influence inspires the Sagittarius man to gravitate towards women who are well-spoken, forward-thinking, and into the same subjects that he likes.
As a woman, if you want to attract a Sagittarius man during this season, show him that you’re not shy or overly introspective. Let him know that you’re interested in going with him to social events and other celebratory affairs.
If looking for other ways to show the Sagittarius man that you’re interested and want to be involved, find volunteer and community activities that you can share.
September is one of those months where the Sagittarius man won’t care what he’s doing as long as there’s a good conversation with genuine people, and of course some one-on-one time with you.
Just make sure that you’re not giving too many “I’m your friend” vibes. You don’t want him to mislabel or misread your romantic intentions. So speak up and make sure he knows that you want him.
4. Be Confident
With Mars, the planet of action and willpower, stationing retrograde in the Sagittarius man’s fifth house of love and partnerships on September 9, the Sagittarius man may come across more sexually reserved than usual.
Typically, Mars in his fifth house of Aries brings feelings of deep passion, intimacy, and youthfulness. However, with Mars retrograde (which means it is moving in an apparent backward motion) the Sagittarius man’s focus is less on sexual affairs and more on building his self-esteem and creative talents.
During this transit, the Sagittarius man is most attracted to the woman who is bold and confident—someone who can make up for his current loss of willpower and excitement with love.
If you are not comfortable with making the first move or letting your desires be known, allow this transit to help you overcome your fears and wear your heart on your sleeve.
The Sagittarius man needs to know how you feel.
If looking for fun and innovative ways to break the ice, do your best to plan a sensual surprise. Perhaps you can blindfold him and take him to a secret date in a hidden location. Or maybe you would rather plan a luxurious staycation for two.
If you notice that he is more cautious or consumed with his physical appearance, remind the Sagittarius man that there is more to life than the way he looks. Remind him that for you, love is just as emotional and spiritual as it is physical, and you want him just the way he is.
Overall, if you want to attract a Sagittarius man in September 2020, I suggest being firm about what you want for your future, having some fun, getting involved in his social life, and being confident about who you are and what you bring to the table.
September 2020 is a month where the Sagittarius man will say goodbye to his past and be open to a more romantic future.
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