Hello my dear, and welcome to the horoscope reading for your Sagittarius man for October. The year is racing to a climax, and you’ll be pleased to know that the transits for this particular week offer the scope for some intensity, passion, emotional connectivity, and there’s also a bit of good luck and spontaneity.
In fact, it is a rather stimulating month on a number of levels, and that’s always good for relationships because it means there’s a variety of energies that you can tap into in order to remold the relationship.
What’s important as well, is understanding the power basis of the relationship, tapping into the subtext, the context, the hidden motives and agendas that you and your partner have, and working with those in order to get a better result.
So often, I feel people fail in relationships because they keep on a surface, verbal level without understanding what’s really behind the facade, what’s behind the words, and what lies beneath. I feel this is a great time to uncover what lies beneath and then shift your overall perspective of the relationship to achieve relationship goals.
Here’s what the stars have in store for a Sagittarius Man this October…
New Moon in Libra – 2nd of October
This New Moon is conjunct Mercury, which is rather important for a Sagittarius Man because it has an impact on relationships. It’s a good time to re-address any recent problems, issues, or disagreements and to seek harmony.
What is also vital right now is to renew the friendship factor. This means not only being buddies who take an interest in doing things together and having quality conversations, but also being a couple that grows together and seeks new horizons.
What’s important to remember right now is that Sagittarius guys are like rolling stones—they easily become dissatisfied. They have a restless nature, always needing to experience new things. Even if travel isn’t possible, a sense of adventure is vital to revitalize a relationship or get a new one off the ground.
Jupiter Goes Retrograde in Gemini – 9th of October
This is one of the most important transits for a Sagittarius man, particularly because Jupiter is his ruling planet. As it goes retrograde in Gemini, the sign that governs affairs of the heart and long-term relationships, it reminds you that all relationships need work.
The biggest issue right now is complacency or making assumptions. Don’t take the relationship for granted or assume everything is on track. This is your time to “fix the roof while the sun is shining.” Even if you’re not on a solid footing, go ahead and fix it.
This is a time for deeper understanding in relationships so you can repair the root problems or fundamental flaws, creating a much better future. Deal with problems confidently and don’t delay.
Mercury Enters Scorpio – 14th of October
This is a tricky placement because, as Mercury enters Scorpio, it squares Pluto. In general, Mercury in Scorpio is a thoughtful phase for a Sagittarius man, and some of his more unpredictable characteristics come to the fore.
He can be quite shy, especially about intimacy, which is why the whole sexual realm has to be approached carefully right now. Any latent anxieties or fears he has can undermine the relationship.
While it’s a good time for chatting, laughing, and doing new things, there’s always a need to keep an eye on anything subliminal or hidden under the surface. Sagittarius men are great at getting on with things, sometimes even denying their true feelings.
Patience may be needed to coax out certain secrets or suppressed emotions. Try to understand the subtext of what he doesn’t say, and be conscious of it. Don’t delve or pry, but be aware that there’s always more to learn about him, and that his personality has hidden depths that are not always as upbeat and buoyant as he seems on the surface.
Venus enters Sagittarius – 18th of October
When Venus enters Sagittarius, it’s a great sign for love and affection. Sagittarius men will want companionship and to be more plugged into relationships. This represents a good opportunity, whether in an existing relationship or while dating, to grow closer, have some date nights, and enjoy physical affection and closeness.
However, Venus will be squaring Saturn and opposing Neptune, so sensitivity is required. It’s not a good time for aggression; harmony and fun should be the focus. Be compassionate, as there are some worries he’s carrying right now.
Sun enters Scorpio – 23rd of October
This is a time when a Sagittarius Man may need some space. He might want to go off on his own and be out of contact for a while. Remember, his motto is “absence makes the heart grow fonder,” so you should never be fearful of time apart.
A Sagittarius man can sometimes sow seeds of doubt, and being in a relationship with him can lead to insecurity because he loves his freedom, but it’s important to respect those needs, as this will make your relationship stronger. This is not the time for love-bombing or nagging.
Themes for a Sagittarius Man this October 2024…
This week, it’s important to work on positive communication, doing new things together, and keeping the relationship stimulating and exciting. For your relationship with Sagittarius man, it’s about renewing friendship and being a good buddy.
However, be mindful of underlying problems that might be hard to define but need addressing. You’ll need to be a bit of a relationship detective to uncover potential issues. This is a good time to get on top of them.
Magic Motto: “Embrace the unseen, nurture the unspoken, and let growth arise from shared strength.”
Magic Text Message: “Hey love, I know you’re always the life of the party, but I want you to know that I’m here for all the deeper parts of you too.”
Do
The moon waxes from the 2nd to the 17th of the month and this two-week period is perfect for new activities, dating, relationship goals and starting any new projects. After the 17th, you have to capitalize on what you have now achieved, reflect and take a grounded, more than a dynamic response.
Good for home improvements, purchasing furniture or DIY. Excellent for establishing a home office or new business from home. Investment regarding property, pensions and expanding a family business are important this waxing phase.
Avoid
Major career moves and new leadership roles are not favored. Not a great time for job interviews. PR, public speaking and new business ventures are not favored in the waxing phase.
This is not a good time for international travel or new international business contracts. Publishing and advertising are not favored.
Advertising and promotional activities are not favored. Not the best waxing phase to organize legal matters. Religious matters and higher education goals are not favored.
October 2024 Horoscope for a Sagittarius Man (week by week)
Week 1: Spontaneous and Sexy
This week, not only is the New Moon conjunct Mercury, but there’s also a Grand Water Trine, meaning Venus in Scorpio is trine Mars in Cancer and Saturn in Pisces. This represents a time when the romantic, tender nature of Sagittarius is aroused, making it possible to spark some romance.
However, you must stimulate his fantasy life. Sexually, things may be exciting, but everything must remain subtle and spontaneous. Remember, sexually, don’t over-plan—everything must feel free and easy, generated through days of adventure and genuine togetherness. Forced or contrived moments will backfire.
Week 2: Falling into Place
With the Sun in Libra trine Jupiter in Gemini and Mars in Cancer sextile Uranus in Taurus, it’s an excellent time to work on improving the relationship. Focus on a holistic approach, considering physical well-being, sexual life, and other areas of harmony.
For example, if diet impacts sleep, which in turn affects mood or attraction, address it. Ensure that the various aspects of the relationship are in balance. Good communication, spontaneity, and a focus on improving intimacy can help everything fall into place.
This is a time for rediscovery in relationships, if you think you know each other inside out, you are probably wrong and even if you’ve recently started dating a Sagittarius man and you both think you’re getting to know each other, this week will confound those expectations and remind you that relationships are a journey, they are evolving as you both evolve and things should never be taken for granted.
Week 3: It’s complicated
With Venus in Scorpio opposite Uranus in Taurus, this week may be draining due to work or other obligations. Both of you may feel tired, making it harder to find time for love and affection.
The Sun in Scorpio is also squaring Pluto, creating complexity in the relationship. You might feel overwhelmed, like you’re not clicking, and it’s difficult to understand each other. Don’t panic—if this week feels stressful, it’s just a phase. Go with the flow, work through it, and remember that these things pass.
The power is really in your hands right now, it’s through your positivity, your optimism and your ability to take the High Road in relationships that you can really affect positive change. So remember that two wrongs don’t make a right, always retain the moral high ground and you can’t go wrong.
Week 4: Can Clichés
This week, the key is motivation. Sometimes relationships don’t go as planned, and while the first two weeks of the month were easier, the third and fourth weeks present more challenges.
With Venus in Sagittarius squaring Saturn in Pisces, be mindful and pragmatic in relationships. Stay calm, keep a level head, and remain realistic. This is a great time to do practical things to help each other. Show thoughtfulness, jump in, and do something that will make a real difference. Avoid meaningless words or cliché romantic gestures.
It’s important to bite the bullet, this is not a time to obfuscate or avoid, it’s important for him to jump in, roll up his sleeves and knuckle down to the hard work without looking for distractions or easy ways out.
Summary
The key this week is don’t fear-making changes and positively understand that a Sagittarius Man is a complex character simply because there are so many things that he conceals and doesn’t find easy to express in his most notorious guise as an outgoing, happy go lucky guy.
He often uses humor as a mask for other emotions and he doesn’t find it easy to express vulnerability. This is a time when he requires harmony, consistency and a lot of encouragement and support from a partner to put him in a safe space where he does feel he can open up about some of the anxieties he has.
This month requires multiple different aspects of the relationship to be worked on, but the key is don’t be afraid to work on them, be positive about the challenges because if you pay attention and adhere to the advice in this guide your relationship will be in a much better place.
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