So, you’ve got a crush on a Sagittarius man! These fire signs are exciting, sexy, fun-loving – and fickle. They’re not the easiest to pin down, and their restless search for novelty often makes them the guy who plays the field. However, there are some exceptions, especially when you’re asking the right questions to capture his heart! 

Astrology is one of those magical tools that can seriously get you ahead when it comes to the game of love! Used well, with responsibility and intelligence, Astrology can help to melt anyone’s heart, paving the way for easier relationships overall. 

If you’ve fallen for the reckless, charismatic, and optimistic Sagittarius, you may know that this is one guy that may break your heart if not handled property. He doesn’t like pressure, labels, or responsibilities, and he likes to keep things carefree and easy. 

That doesn’t mean he’s not passionate or committed — he can be both when you play your cards right. That doesn’t mean you have to change yourself or manipulate him to get his love. Just like in any dating game, you figure out what someone likes and focus on that to make them happy, as they will certainly be doing with you, too! 

Love is an intricate dance. We all like to put our best foot forward and give our budding relationship the best chance of flourishing. 

Here are my top seven questions to get the flighty Sagittarius man to sit up and take notice of you —and to hopefully give you his heart for good! 

7 Questions That Make A Sagittarius Man Fall In Love With You

1. Ask About His Travels

It’s well-known that Sagittarian men really love to travel. They would give anything to be on a plane right now, heading off to see the world. Many of them have traveled extensively, from remote places to big cities. 

Begin by asking him where he’s gone in the world (and share where you’ve been, too!). Ask him which were his favorite—and which were his worst places! Let him recall his travel stories to you; he’ll tell them with plenty of embellishment and make you laugh in the process. 

Ask him where he still wants to go. And maybe suggest that one day, the two of you can go together… This will secure in his mind the idea of a future with you, and give you both something wonderful to look forward to! 

2. Ask Him What He Likes To Do For Fun

This is one guy that loves to have a good time. Sagittarius men are often the very last on the dancefloor, the last to call it a night and give up the party! Fun for him may also mean getting active, physical and sweaty, so scope out what he sees as a good time.

Feel free to add your idea of a good time – to be honest, most things are fun to the Sagittarius guy. When done with a good attitude and a positive approach, he’ll make cleaning the house seem like an adventure! 

Hopefully, you’ll connect on plenty of activities, at which time you can suggest doing a few of them together. Be prepared to take a risk – this is one man that’s not afraid of anything! 

3. Be Philosophical In Your Approach

Sagittarians are born philosophers! For them, everything always happens for a reason. They look on the bright side, and usually see the lesson in every life experience. They take a totally positive approach – nothing for them is ever a “terrible” or wasteful experience. 

Bring your own philosophy into the conversation – how do you see things? What makes up your bigger picture? Be prepared to be schooled – these guys can be a little, well, self-righteous at times, and they like to think they’re always correct (which they often are!). 

You could also combine a few spiritual questions with your philosophical beliefs, which will really get his engine going! You may even find that your conversation keeps you up into the wee hours of the night – there’s nothing he’s not open to discussing! 

And, the best thing about this is that he’s flexible. He’s willing to hear your point and share his. 

4. Ask Him About His Spiritual Beliefs

Even if you may not see it right away, or if he’s still in his party phase, he may not show his spiritual side. However, Sagittarius men are often very attuned to the spiritual world, and are always searching for the truth. 

This may have led him down some interesting paths, such as plant medicine journeys, or visiting temples and shamans. Let yourself be regaled by his fantastic stories and insights! Don’t be afraid to learn something new, either. 

You may even make a suggestion or two to try a yoga class together, or attend a singing bowls mediation or a drumming circle. Throw a few ideas out and see what lands! 

5. Make Plenty Of Jokes

This is one guy that loves a bit of good humor! He will probably be the one making you laugh your head off, and he can be amazingly witty! He talks fast, with passion and is usually very direct and to the point. You may even wonder if he has a career in comedy. 

His laugh is also so infectious and his humor contagious, that you’ll feel confident enough to laugh along, and make jokes of your own. He will love a lady who can tickle his funny bone. This is the best time to whip out your joke repertoire and wrap him around your finger!

One thing is true – love equals laughter, and laughter equals love for this carefree sign. 

6. Keep Things Positive And Easy-Going

This is not the man to get heavy or too serious with. You can ask him heavy questions about his past and his future, but he may avoid them or think that you’re getting too much too soon. 

Even if a difficult topic does come up – like divorce, or politics, or anything else that’s touchy – approach it with humor and philosophy. See the bigger picture and keep it easy-going. He’ll appreciate that you’re not putting that kind of pressure into the conversation between you. 

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7. Be Completely Honest And To The Point

Whatever you’ve decided to bring up with him, make sure that you are being one hundred percent honest and open. Don’t play mind games with him – this is not the guy you want to hide things from or try to manipulate. 

When he sees how honest you are, he will just adore you. He wants a woman who he can talk to about anything without being worried about offending her. There’s nothing quite as freeing as having a partner who you can be open with, either. So, this is a win-win situation! 

And that, ladies, concludes my top tips for getting a Sagittarius guy to fall into your arms with a few, choices questions and conversational approaches. I’m always open to leaning for you though, so go ahead and share your Sagittarius man stories below. You’ll stay anonymous! 

If you want to know more about this free-spirited man, check out my Sagittarius Man Secrets right here. 

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach