Hello Sweethearts and welcome to this guide for September for your Sagittarius man.
Whether you are romancing, dating, or married to Sagittarius Guy, this guy aims to help you understand his moods, motives, and agendas in love so that you can better respond to him and improve your relationship. Of course, relationships are a mind field, but we understand your needs and questions so we want to help you navigate your relationships with success.
Remember that we also have yearly guides packed with useful information and advice for each month and the year in general.
Now the planets are a little bit changeable this month, very much like the weather as the seasons change. We have Mercury going direct in Virgo conjunct the New Moon, Jupiter going retrograde in Taurus and also Venus going direct in Leo and all these will be having an effect on Sagittarius Guy, so let’s unpack the transits and see what’s cooking.
Venus goes direct in Leo – 4th September
Venus has been retrograde for almost six weeks and that has caused some hiccups in all relationships, in fact, there could have been a mismatch of needs, more debate, and many more questions than answers. However, it was also a time that gave us all a chance to reassess relationships and to think more deeply about what we want and how we can communicate that to our partner.
Now for Sagittarius Guy, the effect of Venus going direct in Leo is a return to his usual confident, buoyant manner, so if you had wondered where his spark had gone, it’s lightly that he was simply a little bit emotionally exhausted or slightly more contemplative.
Sometimes Sagittarius Guy is gung ho and he rushes into things, but at other times, he needs his space to think. In fact, with Sagittarius Guy it’s very true that absence makes the heart grow fonder, so if you did have a little bit of a break or more distance between you, possibly physical distance in that you didn’t see each other much, or maybe you felt he was more emotionally distant, that can actually be a good thing, because he always comes back stronger.
Jupiter retrograde in Taurus – 5th September
With Jupiter, his planetary ruler, going retrograde in Taurus, this is an important time for you guys to be consolidating, making savings, and investing. This can be a particularly good time for investing in a long-term goal, like an aspirational holiday, a new home or renovating your home, so it’s important to be cautious and wise with money.
This is also a time to work hard at the practical aspects of your life, so it’s very important to keep promises, to be punctual, and communicate well with each other on a daily basis. This is certainly a time when the little things in relationships count and add up to something big, so small acts of kindness and thoughtfulness go towards creating more harmony in the relationship.
This is a wonderful time for couples who are sporting and have health goals, so going into the spring or autumn season, it’s a fantastic time for you guys to maybe do a 60-day shred, start a new exercise routine, or training for a marathon. Sometimes a joint health or fitness goal can jazz up the relationship. If he has any ongoing health issues, it’s wonderful if you could help him with research and motivate him to be more disciplined about eating clean, cutting out the carbs etc. So sometimes a focus on a specific area of health can be a key way to show the practical thoughtfulness that’s required this month in love.
New Moon in Virgo – 14th September
He needs to show leadership and to be fairly assertive but it’s also important for him to let his compassionate side shine through. So, he doesn’t want to appear inflexible or authoritarian, however, he wants people to respect him and it is a fine balance to strike, but that’s what he needs to work on. So it’s all about leveraging the ability he has to inspire people but also inspire respect in him.
What he needs right now is a loyal supporter in his corner, let him have his moment, and let him know you admire him and respect what he is achieving. It’s highly likely that he will get some recognition, either this month or the next, but he is certainly on a good track in his career, and this should help bring more stability to the family as it will help relieve a lot of the stresses he’s been under, and therefore this is a very welcome transit for your relationship.
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Mercury goes Direct in Virgo – 16th September
Mercury turning direct in Virgo is excellent, as important correspondence and communications to do with his career or career prospects can come through for him.
It’s more likely that he will have success when he submits a job application, and if there are any plans you have been making for your immediate future, they can come off the back burner and proceed. The tension and delay or anxiety caused by Mercury retrograde, with respect to communicating with people in authority, or waiting for information, is now being alleviated and there should be more clarity, and as far as your route ahead, the fog is lifting.
There’s an indication that this is a good time for you and Sagittarius Guy to sort out the finances that you share. So if you run a business together, have a mortgage together or simply share a bank account, this is an excellent time to streamline and simplify your financial affairs for the purposes of clarity and fewer arguments.
This is a good time to document and organize your affairs to make sure you’re not wasting money and time unnecessarily. So consolidate your debt, resolve to pay off debt or create some money-saving schedules that will help you achieve savings and reduced debt. Cancel any unnecessary subscriptions.
This is a great time for him communicating more with people, in fact, people power is key to career and a lot of the important events that happen career-wise are contingent on how he communicates, particularly with colleagues, employees, underlings and also the public.
Theme of the Month – This month the prevailing circumstances tend to keep him grounded and in touch with what is real. Sometimes other people may challenge him and it’s not a time when he can afford to take anything for granted or get carried away with illusions.
He needs support and encouragement as he’s feeling a little flat and events may force him to question his actions or commitment to goals.
It’s important for you both not to deny any weaknesses and shortcomings in your communication or your relationship as it’s a great time for clear thinking and rational problem-solving.
Do: The new moon phase extends from the 14th of September to the 29th of September this waxing phase is the perfect fortnight for new initiatives, setting plans, establishing goals, starting anything prospective and being proactive.
The waxing phase is great for new diets and health regimes. This is perfect for recuperating, holistic healing and using positive thinking and visualization for his improving health. Exercise routines and nutritional research is favored. A good time for positive changes within his work and working with inspiring new colleagues.
Competitive and physically demanding tasks are favored. Getting treatments like physiotherapy, osteotherapy, chiropractic therapy or reflexology is successful.
Brand new activities and new starts in life and love are favored. A great waxing period for humanitarian work and activism. Larger group activities are successful. Good for joining new clubs, organizations and networks.
Avoid: Best not to take on more debt or enter new joint ventures. You guys should consolidate financially and look to develop savings plans and put big expenditure on hold.
This is not a good time to book, plan, or put a deposit on a holiday or honeymoon. A new long-distance relationship may not be successful.
Week 1 – Getting to his heart through his mind
Sagittarius guy is very future-orientated, so it’s always a vital for you guys to be thinking of the next big thing, otherwise he can actually get bored. So you have to find ways of keeping him curious and engaged. It’s also vital for you to introduce more mystery into the relationship, don’t be an open book, it’s great to keep him guessing and he loves a challenge.
It’s important for you to be able to debate with him, to question him and to be a little bit of an enigma, so work on being charming and mystical this month. Let him wonder a little bit more about where you’re going, what you’re doing, and who you’re speaking to. It’s always good for him to be ‘in the hunt’ so don’t let him have everything on a plate.
Week 2 – Organized Loving
This week it’s important for you guys to remain objective and establish the truth by sticking to the facts. The intellectual side of the relationship is stimulated and your power lies in using logic and diplomacy to make your point known and attain your goals in your relationship with Sagittarius Guy. Be sharp and observant, and jump on any developments immediately to seek deeper understanding about the new problems that come your way.
In your relationship with Sagittarius Guy, you need to be serious and a stalwart, ensure that you have clarity of mind and direction of purpose, if you aren’t determined the whole week can be chaotic. When judging a situation that arises, you need to consider all the possible domino effects. Cause and effect is a vital consideration.
You will need to leave your emotions out of judgment and maintain rational thinking at all times.
Week 3 – Devil in the Details
He could be feeling a little blocked and unable to move freely. He’s likely rather frustrated and not able to identify what exactly is wrong but there’s a feeling that he’s waiting for something to happen so that things can get going again.
It is important for you both examine more closely the accuracy of your perceptions about the relationship and the honesty of your intentions. To the extent that you guys people please or purposely mislead each other, you will face some consequences, because this always unravels.
Even if he is idealistic this week, he can still experience a sense of waking up from certain dreams and illusions that may have misled him without him realizing. This is a time of coming to terms with whatever aspects of life that he’s either disregarded or put an incorrect spin on.
Small details can become large issues now, especially those that are significant and have gone unheeded for some time.
Week 4 – Plain Sailing
His energy is definitely returning this week and he’s eager to socialize and entertain. He’s likely to initiate activities that involve your friends and which take advantage of any good weather to get into the outdoors especially the ocean or a lake.
He’s easily tempted into new relationships and so if you are friends with him, that relationship could easily turn romantic, but remember, he’s very fluid now and anything could change next month when Venus is direct again.
He may be prone to making assumptions or jumping to the conclusions that suit him emotionally, but he should be careful of wishful thinking and be alert of the reasons behind the choices that he makes.
He’s quite restless and more likely to feel trapped in highly conventional or structured situations, so it is not a great time for you guys allowing annoying people or relatives to force themselves on you.
Wisdom tends to develop in September as the penny drops and after repeated attempts meet with resistance, he becomes more accepting of the truth and immediately his energy starts to coalesce around new ideas and goals.
Sometimes tough love is important this month because it’s good to get real and strike at the heart of issues.
While he’s not passive, he realized his limitations and those of others and works with them rather than against them.
It’s a good month for his career and home life may suffer however the last week of the month is great for chilling and family time.
This is a good month to bring your visions of the relationship back into alignment, start making some important relationship decisions so that you have plenty to look forward to in the coming year. It’s always good for couples to work together on aspirational goals, and so you should be forgetting about the minutia and focusing on things that can really inspire you both and set you on an ambitious course forward in your love life.
Wishing you love and luck with your Sagittarius Man,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,