Sagittarius men are wild and free – they don’t live by the rules and norms of society. So, it’s hard to know what to expect with these untamed creatures.
It’s even more confusing when a Sagittarius ex sends you a text out of the blue. What do they want? And what should you do when this happens? Keep reading to find out exactly what steps you should take when this happens.
4 Things To Do When Your Sagittarius Ex Messages You
1. Determine What You Want
Ask yourself how you felt when you received this text. Did it give you anxiety, or did it leave you feeling excited and full of butterflies?
Sometimes we want to hear from our exes, and sometimes we don’t. It’s good to figure out what YOU want first.
It can be really confusing hearing from an ex, and it can bring up a lot of feelings that you might not even know you have deep inside you. But if you feel like you want to open up the door to let him in for a bit, then proceed with caution.
Otherwise, you can always choose to ignore him or block him. It all depends on how the relationship ended, and if you think it’s worth rehashing old history!
You have the power in this situation, so use it to your advantage!
2. Get Back To Him
The thing to note about a Sagittarius man is that he loves his independence and being a free spirit! In all honesty, there probably isn’t a master mind plot to get back into a relationship with you by reaching out.
He more than likely sent you this message on a whim, much like everything else he does in life. Sagittarius men are very much the type to act now and think later, and this is more than likely the intention behind his text message.
It wouldn’t be unusual for him to delete or block an ex’s number if it ended badly, but of course this all depends on the situation at hand. Sagittarius men try to move on as quickly as possible, they see no point in going back to the past.
So, receiving a text message from him is actually pretty odd. He’s the type of guy who leaves the past in the past. If something ended, it had to end for a good reason, and he usually leaves it at that.
The thing with a Sagittarius man is, he doesn’t really live in the past. He’s way too concerned about moving forward and what new adventures await him.
You can get back to him with a fun and flirty message. Ask him how he’s doing and what’s new in his life. You know how he loves to live in the spur of the moment, so don’t be surprised if he gets back to you by asking you to meet up for a coffee.
I know I would be very curious to know why a Sagittarius ex was texting me out of the blue. So, the only way to solve the mystery is to get back to him and see what he has to say.
3. Beware The Booty Call
As you know, Sagittarius guys have a lot of energy. Therefore, they are always on the go and ready to explore. But what happens when they are out of activities to do? Well, they get kind of horny and start looking for a booty call…
Be prepared that this might be the sole reason why he has reached out to you. It is very possible that he only has one thing on his mind, and his intention is to get in your pants once again!
How you react to this is up to you. You might choose to reciprocate or to decline his advances. Some of us are better at being detached when it comes to sex than others, it all depends on your personal preference and how well you handle getting intimate with an ex.
Just be warned that you might not hear from him soon after again. Like I said before, when a Sagittarius is done, they are done. And contacting you may just have been a way for them to get their physical needs met.
It is best that I warn you before getting you might get your hopes up and have your feelings hurt. Do what you want, but be mindful of the consequences.
So, make sure you get a good gauge of how you feel about him before making any decisions. The last thing you want to do is regret getting back in touch with him!
4. Prepare For A Possible Second Chance
This whole article I have mentioned that a Sagittarius man actually just wants to roam free and live life according to his own rules. They are really not the type of guy who is keen on getting back together with an ex.
But you never know, you might have a unicorn in your midst and your Sagittarius guy could miss you and want to get back together.
This is a man that has a lot of experience under his belt. He has seen a lot and has done twice the amount! From all his travelling and adventures, he may have come to realize that you tick each and every one of his boxes.
It is very possible that he has woken up and come to the realization that you are the right woman for him.
Especially if you are someone who lives with optimism and a thirst for life. This is the type of qualities this man really appreciates in a partner.
He loves being with someone who is just as independent as him, someone who asks all the same existential questions as he does, and a woman who follows her dreams with glee.
If you feel like you embody all these qualities, him wanting to get back with you may very well be the reason why he is getting back into contact with you again.
Just remember that you hold the power, and it is up to you whether the two of you get back together. If it is what you want, by all means go for it!
Having a Sagittarius man as a partner is definitely worth it. These men are full of life and adventure. If you want excitement, he is definitely the man to provide it!
Please, just remember that it is extremely rare for a Sagittarius man to come back to a relationship after it has ended. Be realistic and keep your expectations low, this is the only way you can prevent yourself from getting hurt.
The ball is really in your court. You can choose to ignore him and protect yourself from getting hurt, or you can choose to respond to him and play the situation by ear.
Ultimately, you are the one with the power and the control. Every situation is unique, and in the end, no one knows what is best for you, better than yourself!
I have given you all the pros and the cons of what it would mean to get back in touch with him. It is up to you to do with this information as you please.
If you think his intentions are pure and he has your best interests at heart, then you should definitely proceed with caution, but try to have as much fun as possible.
And alternatively, if you’re picking up on a bunch of red flags and think you might get hurt, I would suggest to stay as far away from him as possible.
It might feel quite painful to finally let him go for good, but you know what they say, when one door closes another door opens, and you never know who might be right behind that door!
Remember to listen to your intuition and let it be the guiding force in this situation. You can never go wrong when listening to your intuition. I wish you the greatest amount of luck.
Has a Sagittarius ex ever reached out to you? What happened and how did it go? I would love to hear your stories in the comment section below.
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Wishing you all the luck and love in the world.
Your trusted friend and Relationship Astrologer,