April is a month made for Sagittarius, although he will be feeling quite restless. It’s Aries season, Aries being very compatible with the Sagittarius man. He’s feeling philosophical and on a high, in tune with his personal beliefs and ideologies, but also inquisitive. His mind is active while his body might be feeling tense and uneasy. Stimulating his mind this month is key. It will equally spark his emotions and stir his body and senses into action! This is something he’ll appreciate…
How To Attract A Sagittarius Man In April 2021
1. Flirt & Be Playful
First and foremost, he needs to be mentally stimulated. Flirting and being playful are perfect ways to connect to his love of play and adventure, and he’ll cherish this. Anyone who can bring him up and into the light is automatically stuck on his radar. Sagittarius is one of the flirtiest signs… while other men such as those belonging to the water or earth signs may be a bit more modest, and less zealous, the Sag man loves attention. Flirt away!
Seriously, reminding him of the joy of human connection and the power of human spirit is a victory this month. Flirting combined with real wit and clever humor will make you even more attractive. As for playfulness, find ways to connect him with his inner child. Poetry, music, dance, sword fighting, yoga or martial arts, a hike or trek through nature, dress up, and poi or other funky upbeat activities are sure ways to find the right connection.
Be inventive and innovative, original and creative… Furthermore, be fearless – don’t be scared of being judged or him saying your suggested activity is too weird or odd.
Sagittarius is one of the most playful and fun-loving Zodiac signs. It’s okay to imagine you’re on holiday or in a colorful bohemian hostel in Thailand. He’ll like you even more, in fact!
2. Project An Air Of Independence
And, let him know that you’re content within yourself. Be independent and self-sovereign. Let him know that even if you were to form the most magnificent, long-lasting and powerful bond, you’d still recognize the following philosophy: that you came into this world alone. This is super sexy to the Sag man. He needs his freedom yet is fair-minded and honest, so these traits go well if you’re compatible.
He’s not into extreme forms of romance or getting lost in each other’s eyes (for too long, he can handle moments!). He appreciates depth and connection, but it needs to be balanced with healthy independence. You might want to check out your compatibility at this point too.
There’s a New Moon in fiery Aries on the 12th which highlights the desire for self-authority. As Aries is all about ‘number 1,’ being first, and competition, if you happen to be competing for this man’s attention then you should balance playing it cool with making your interest known.
Be mindful of his shadow traits too – this could set you up above the rest. His “shadow” tendencies include being incredibly blunt, argumentative and self-righteous. If you witness any of these and smile through it, with a non-judgmental attitude, you’re a winner.
3. Keep Speaking, Even When He Goes Quiet
It’s rare for a Sag man to go quiet. Everyone knows he loves to chat and let the energy keep flowing. But, a secret about the Sagittarius personality is that they actually have a deeply contemplative and introspective side. There’s a difference between introspection and introversion – he is an extrovert, there’s no doubt about that.
Yet, he is prone to moments of reflection and “taking it all in,” even in social situations and gatherings. Keep speaking. If he goes quiet (which may seem strange) he’s most likely connected to his ‘free flow’ intuitive right brain. He’s in tune with his philosophical side.
Remember that he is ruled by Jupiter, the planet of higher learning, wisdom and philosophy. Some people think Jupiter is just about luck and expansion, abundance and the like. This is incorrect. Jupiter represents the higher mind, and this links to the higher self.
Quite simply, if you’re talking away and start to get the gut feeling that you’re rambling, keep going. This is a rare moment when he’s become reflective and taken a step down from his (sometimes) overly lively personality.
What does it mean for you? It signifies he will remember your light glowing. He may even see you in a magical, divine, or celestial like space, depending on the topic you were passionately engaged in. This is especially true if you were talking about something with depth and spiritual or inspirational significance!
4. Take It Easy
Stay chilled and with a Zen vibe, however. It doesn’t matter how communicative or flirty and playful you want to get; you should still be down-to-earth and chilled this month. Keep an aura of contentment and relaxation. It may benefit you to picture being complete carefree, with no practical or financial responsibilities – no heaviness weighing on you.
The Sagittarius man may be restless and gregarious, but he’s still instinctive. He can sense and know intuitively when you’ve got stresses playing on your mind, or when there is an emotional heaviness keeping you in a low vibration. Try to avoid this at all costs.
This isn’t to suggest that you should be superficial, it is simply implying that this man prefers optimistic interactions with “lightness.” Upbeat, vital, passionate, enthusiastic, and cheerful are key words to meditate on.
When the Sun enters laid-back and cool as a cucumber Taurus, on the 19th, there is an opportunity to balance optimism with peaceful serenity. Sagittarius and Taurus may not be the most compatible signs, but they can at least appreciate one another’s love of staying Zen and easy-going.
5. Be As Wise And Smart As You Want
Because he’s feeling restless and uneasy this April, you can show off a bit mentally/intellectually! There’s a green light to be as smart, funny, sophisticated, analytical, talented, and wise as you want. He is looking for ways to stimulate his mind and keep him occupied, and intelligent conversation from a woman he clicks with is a no brainer.
Anything that requires little to no mental effort, actually, will grab his attention. Intellectual conversation comes easy to him, therefore you’re free to keep him entertained through words.
If you want to add that extra dimension of depth and connection, show him your favorite tunes. Try to keep it majestic and “universal.” Play a bit of rock, metal, house, or whatever unique genre you personally love, then bring it back to that universal vibe. Something nearly everyone would be happy to bliss out to, on a beach or when feeling mellow and relaxed at a festival. Think: majestic, serene, and sublime…
Final Thoughts & Key Astrological Transits
The New Moon in harmonious Aries on the 12th provides a firm foundation of mutual understanding and respect. He is looking for people on his wavelength who share in his values.
Intellectual conversation is favored over deep or heavy emotions, but he will be more romantic and sensual when the Sun enters Taurus on the 20th. Be mindful of his traits, which can be seen clearly through the Sagittarius Man Secrets.
There’s a Full Moon in sensitive and spiritually open Scorpio on the 27th. Consider how you can connect imaginatively, spiritually and philosophically. Tune into his love of a self-sustaining, eco-loving, collective earth.
Wishing you light, love, and all the luck in the Universe on your journey!
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,