How To Flirt With A Sagittarius Man Effectively

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Are you trying to get a Sagittarius man’s attention but don’t want to come off as needy, clingy, or even pushy? Find out how to flirt with a Sagittarius man.

So you’ve met a smoking hot Saggitarius man that you’d like to get to know better or even date, but you aren’t sure if he’s flirting with you or picking on you? Have you ever wondered how to flirt with a Sagittarius man?

There’s good news, girl. I totally have your back in figuring out Sagittarius man flirting clues. I know from my time as a relationship astrologer that Sagittarius men are notoriously difficult to get to carry on a conversation with! They can be spacey, but they do love to flirt, so there is hope.

There are a few things about flirting with a Sagittarius man that I think will help you create a better relationship with him. You’re going to want to read the suggestions I’ve got. I’ve seen them work many times for women just like you.

Keep reading for some helpful information on Sagittarius man flirting style.

How Do Sagittarius Men Flirt?

Sagittarius men are pretty simple creatures. They love to flirt a lot, sometimes making women unaware that they are actually flirting. This is because of their extroverted nature.

One of the easiest ways for him to sweep you off your feet is with his sense of humor. He makes jokes (avoiding inappropriate ones), does funny stuff, and makes you laugh.

A Sagittarius man will make you feel comfortable around him so that when he starts to flirt with you, you’ll be able to get more notice from him. If he is attracted to you, he won’t be shy. He will stare at you. He will be entirely focused on you.

When it comes to flirting, Sagittarius men are bold and daring. I haven’t met a Sagittarius man who didn’t know how to flirt with a woman…

Flirting With A Sagittarius Man — Secrets You Need To Know

This fire Zodiac sign is a huge flirt, so when you flirt with a Sagittarius man, he’s likely to be pretty receptive. He especially loves beautiful women who take pride in themselves. I don’t mean egotistical, but I do mean confident.

If you’re a woman who is really good at flirting, go for it! He’s going to eat it up and think it’s fun. I wouldn’t get too risqué in the beginning because he may then just think you want him for sex only.

Not that it’s a problem, because he’s definitely down for some casual sex if you are. However, if you want more than that, it’s best to lead him down the right path rather than one that could cause a “friends with benefits” situation with a Sagittarius.

With a Sagittarius man, you should always be honest with what you think or feel about him. If you’re interested in him and he hasn’t noticed, put your hand on his when you talk to him and look him in the eyes.

This trick will definitely get his brain gears turning. He’ll wonder why you would touch him or look into his eyes if you weren’t interested. At that point, you’ll find out if you have a chance with him or not.

He’ll either make the next move or he’ll leave it alone and try to possibly avoid you. At least you’ll be able to determine if you can proceed forward or drop it and move on.

If you’re more interested in the exact “lines” you can text your Sagittarius man to grab his interest, I talk more extensively about that in my Sagittarius Text Magic guide where you’ll get plenty of ideas on how to react and what to text depending on the situation. And this is especially useful if you’re not dating yet, but just trying to put your spell on him and make him fall for you…

How To Flirt With A Sagittarius Man

When flirting with a Sagittarius man, you’ll want to stay optimistic and hopeful. Talk about things that spark your interest or take interest in the things he finds interesting.

When he’s talking about things that are important to him, listen to him and really engage in the conversation. A Sagittarius man is an eternal optimist and idealist, which means that he always looks for the silver lining in any situation.

Keeping this in mind, to attract a Sagittarius man, you must absolutely be a positive driving force in your own life as well as his. When you’re around him, talk about good things, happy things, and great desires.

The more he can see that you’re not a Debbie Downer, the more he’ll take an interest in you. If you complain a lot and show a bunch of negativity, your Sagittarius man will be turned off, and he’ll walk away.

A Sagittarius man loves the outdoors. If you invite him to a BBQ with your friends, he’ll feel like he’s part of something that is enjoyable and can then proceed to get to know you.

This is a very positive approach to getting the Sagittarius man’s attention without making him feel weird, awkward, or as though you’re being too pushy. He’ll find it rather sweet of you to think of him.

This could lead to him having more fun with you when he decides to ask you out on a date. Friendship is a good thing to start out with, as it allows the two of you to start getting to know each other.

When you find that he really is interested in you, he’ll start letting you know fairly quickly. When you show him that you’re someone who is fun to be around and with, he’ll be more intrigued.

Do Sagittarius Men Like Flirty Texts? More Tips To Flirt With A Sagittarius Over Text

Because a Sagittarius man is very hard to pin down, sending a couple of flirty text messages might just do the trick to get his attention. In order to write a good text you must first understand what makes a Sagittarius man tick.

Here are some flirty text for your Sagittarius man:

Check His Pulse About Traveling With You

You could write something like, “If I wanted to buy a plane ticket to anywhere, would you do it with me?” This text is a good one for gauging how your Sagittarius responds to the thought of traveling with you.

Sagittarians are actually famous for being world travelers, and they’re not afraid of new environments and lots of surprises. You’re appealing to a deep need for adventure when you send this text to Sagittarius.

Now, you might want to make sure you really would like to hop on a plane going anywhere! A Sagittarius might just take you seriously when you say this, so ensure that you’re really up for that type of adventure. Backing out of it shows the Sagittarius that you’re not actually down for the type of adventure they’re into!

See If He Wants To Go Out With You

“I know this is last minute, but I’m bored. Wanna go grab some drinks?”

Sagittarians are what are known as mutable signs. They operate best in situations where they’re forced to adapt to changing conditions. This is a sign that they really dig last-minute changes as an opportunity to rearrange their schedule. Sagittarius craves texts like this.

Sagittarius is a generally outgoing sign (depending on other factors in your man’s chart), which means that they are usually down to go to public spots on a dime. They have few fears, and lots of people and karaoke aren’t usually among them.

By asking at the last minute if he’s interested, you’re showing him that you’re down for last-minute changes and spontaneous adventures. This is going to signal to him that you’re the kind of girl who could accommodate his pretty hectic lifestyle.

Compliment His Looks

“I have to say, that shirt you wore in that picture made you look so good… Could you send some more pictures, just for me?”

This flirty text for a Sagittarius man isn’t outright telling the guy that you want his body, but the implication is certainly there. What works about this text for the Sagittarius man is that he likely loves his own body.

Sagittarians are notoriously athletic, and even non-athletes tend to have well-proportioned bodies. This text signals to him that you’re looking at his appearance and that you like what you see.

But it’s also not saying outright that you’re into his body. This keeps the tension going and helps to keep everyone on their toes. You know that you love sweet slow burns like that.

FAQ About Sagittarius Man Flirting

Are you struggling to figure out what to do about your Sagittarius man and how to get his attention? Well, luckily for you I have compiled a list of questions that might come up in your relationship.

Why Are Sagittarius So Flirty?

Sagittarius men are playful, which often leads to light flirting and teasing. He tends to go all in and risk it all because he thinks it may be worth it. They have an optimistic outlook on life and natural charisma, which makes them really flirtatious.

On top of that, they enjoy new experiences, meeting new people, and exploring new horizons. Above all else, they are fiercely independent and, as such, have no bounds in Sagittarius when it comes to relationships. Sagittarius flirts with everyone!

How To Make A Sagittarius Man Obsessed With You Over Text?

The best part to appeal to Sagittarius, though, is the idea of trying something new with you. Sagittarians are natural pioneers. They love to go forth and discover what others have never seen. They don’t deal with idleness well, and a routine and monotonous lifestyle would never work for them.

Signaling that you are also restless for change will help them picture you in their future. They could never be with someone boring, so playing up the ways that the two of you can have lots of fun and try new things together is a sure way to make a Sagittarius man obsessed with you over text.

How To Play A Sagittarius Man At His Own Game?

Just be yourself, be happy, be enthusiastic, be adventurous, be exciting, and show him that you’re the partner he’s looking for. He will react to this with positivity, unless he just isn’t into you.

There is no need to be coy or withhold how you feel. Tell him exactly what you think of him and that you’d like to get to know him better. Be independent and adventurous.

How To Get A Sagittarius Man To Be More Serious About You

Keep It Real

One of the best ways to get Sagittarius to be more serious about you is to keep your needs simple. Are you there for love and affection? Cool! Let the Sagittarius know that so he can provide that.

Just go ahead and say what you need to say. Sagittarius won’t be offended, and they won’t mind hearing you out! There is nothing to fear in Sagittarius.

Your honesty and straightforward behavior will stay in the mind of Sagittarius. He will find himself falling for someone who can keep it real, and if that’s you, then all the better!

Ease The Pressure

Sagittarius is a free spirit who goes where the wind takes him. He’s got no roots, and he feels limitless. So, when someone attempts to reign him in or direct him in a certain way, he can become a little ornery and may just buck you right out of his life!

Loving a Sagittarius is an exercise in faith. Faith that they’ll stay, and faith that if they don’t, they will return. If you can exercise this technique and the Sagittarius returns to you, then you know that he is open to full-fledged love, and this is all thanks to the freedom you gave him!

Leave Negativity At The Door

Sagittarius is ruled by the expansive Jupiter, the planet that rules happy times, travel, and learning. Sagittarius looks to the future with glittering eyes, ready to accept whatever comes his way with open arms.

So, it should be obvious that the Sagittarius will be diametrically opposed to the Negative Nelly. He isn’t going to appreciate feeling bummed when he’d prefer to feel carefree.

It’s okay to express your concerns to a Sagittarius, but make sure you are assuming the best of him as well as the best of other people. He doesn’t like to talk crap about someone he barely knows.

You’d do well to work on phrases like “I’m sure they mean well” and “Even though when you do this it bothers me, I know that you can improve, and I look forward to seeing your progress.” Phrases with this energy of faith and expansion are going to attract the Sagittarius like no other.

If Your Sagittarius Man Pulls Away, DON’T Do This…

I’ve heard from so many of my clients that their Sagittarius man is AMAZING when they are in person with him. So charming, sweet, funny, and really connected!

But he can tend to pull away when you’re not with him. It’s a super frustrating situation for any woman. And if you are like my other clients who have been through this, you’re probably feeling REALLY confused.

“Why is he so hot and cold through text?”

“Why does he back off when we aren’t together?”

And most importantly…

“What can I DO about this?”

First, I want to share the things you definitely should NOT do in this situation…

  1. Don’t get clingy or needy and ask him if something is wrong or beg to see him
  2. Don’t force closure if you’ve had some conflict. Wait until you can talk in person about important issues. Text can EASILY lead to miscommunication.
  3. Don’t assume that there IS a problem. He could just be really busy.
  4. Don’t let fear drive your actions. Assume the best and not the worst.
  5. Don’t chase him. Chase your dreams and goals instead.
  6. Don’t ignore him so he can “see what it feels like.”

So what SHOULD you do instead?

  1. Take some time out to reflect on the situation and consider logical reasons for his actions.
  2. Date other men if you aren’t exclusive. Don’t lock yourself down with him if you aren’t yet in a committed relationship with him.
  3. Give him space and time with zero pressure. He might be overwhelmed with work or not be feeling well.
  4. Focus on your own life. If you don’t have an epic life filled with hobbies and time with friends or family, you need to build that.

Your Sagittarius man should be the sprinkles on the cupcake of your awesome life, not the cupcake itself.

  1. Let him reach out to you when he’s ready. Sagittarius men like to lead. You need to let him do that!
  2. Be supportive. If you haven’t heard from him in a week (or a even day if you text every single day no matter what), ask if he’s okay. And offer to be supportive if he’s going through a challenging time.
  3. Communicate what your needs are, but avoid any blame or shame.
  4. When your Sagittarius man comes back, welcome him lovingly with open arms. If you are angry, he’ll want to run.
  5. When you are in person, let him know (kindly) the things that make you feel valued and adored.

Text can be challenging, and I don’t want you to feel alone in this.

I don’t want you to lie in bed unable to sleep because you are worried about why your Sagittarius man is pulling away.

And there is no need for you to do that.

Especially when I can guide you on how to deeply connect with a Sagittarius man through text messages… 

Because when you know SPECIFICALLY what to text him based on his astrology… He WON’T be pulling away anymore. And you’ll never again have to worry about what to say to your lovely Sagittarius man through text anymore.

Click here to check what I mean <<

Wishing you love and luck,

Your Sister and Relationship Astrologer,


About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

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