8 Biggest Sagittarius Man Turn Offs

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
So, what can you do to avoid being seen in a bad light by the Sagittarius man? You definitely need to know a Sagittarius man turn offs as these tips will save you from heartbreak!

Are you falling hard for a smart and sexy Sagittarius man? Well, who could blame you? Their bright, fun loving nature is crazy attractive, and their presence is magnetic as well as magnanimous. But what turns off a Sagittarius man?

Ladies, let me tell you that Sagittarius man turn offs are not hard to define. As men,  they are complex in some ways but simple in others, so attempting to nail them down and know what they avoid is difficult sometimes.

Every sign has likes and dislikes — especially when it comes to love! Sagittarius men are often very complex people, and they have plenty of layers to them. That means they have plenty of quirks, too.

You’ve also got to take into account their commitment issues and the fact that they can be quite indecisive about relationships. However, when a Sagittarius man is ready to commit, he can make a wonderful, loyal, and loving partner.

Luckily, I have many years of experience as a relationship Astrologer, and I am willing to let you in on some of the exclusive knowledge about Sagittarius man turn offs!

What Turns Off A Sagittarius Man

A Sagittarius man is an outspoken and easygoing person. He likes to spend time with his friends, so being overly clingy and possessive is a huge turn off for a Sagittarius man. He likes light-hearted love relationships—no judging, no accusations.

Sagittarians simply like to do things their own way, in their own time, and the way they want. If anyone is contrary to this, he has no time or space for them in his life. That’s how a Sagittarius man is.

To keep him satisfied, you need to give him lots of space, stop frequently texting and calling, and give him the attention he deserves without breathing down his neck. If you fail to do this, it will turn your Sagittarius man off. A lack of appreciation makes a Sagittarius man blow cold.

Also, a Sagittarius man is turned off by a lack of adventure and enthusiasm. He is curious and likes to engage in exciting adventures. If you are not interested in exploring the world with him, your Sagittarius man will slowly lose interest.

Here’s a detailed overview of what turns a Sagittarius man off:

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1. Pulling In The Reigns

Sagittarians see no limits and don’t care to see them. Society has rules and guidelines but none that the Sagittarius respects enough to not break. In a relationship, they are no different. They are highly interested in freedom and freedom alone!

That’s why the top piece of advice that I have to offer you, dear reader, about your Sagittarius lover is to NEVER attempt to restrict their actions. The Sagittarius is going to be totally repelled by your attempts to end their wild stallion lifestyle, even if you are in a relationship. 

A Sagittarius is going to be resistant to all attempts to keep him controlled. This is one guy who might get annoyed by prompts to come home from the bar, pay the bills, or block someone you don’t like… in fact, he’s more likely to decide to ditch YOU if you make any signs of wanting to reel him in! 

With the Sagittarius, what you see is what you get. Any thoughts of: “Oh, he’ll change for me!” should be squished immediately since he won’t change for you, he’ll likely just say Sayonara! 

2. Lying Through Your Teeth

Sagittarius is ruled by the big, bold Jupiter. This gas planet is actually not full of hot air, in fact, those ruled by Jupiter are going to find themselves seeking substance more than anything. They admire things and people that are what they are and don’t advertise to be anything but that. 

When they see a person who isn’t willing to fully embody the truth of who they are or what they did, they see a person who is ashamed of their actions and not willing to fully embody who they are, and that’s what bothers the Sagittarius more than anything! 

Sagittarians need someone who wants to be totally honest about where they’ve been and what they’ve done. The Sagittarius will never judge you for anything other than trying to be something you’re not. 

Jupiter has influenced Sagittarians to take everyone as they are. When the Sagittarius can’t make out who you really are, it’s hard for them to accept you totally, which is what they really want. 

Lying to a Sagittarius man hurts his feelings deeply because he sees your lies as you assuming that they’d judge you for the truth. This is why they’ll be questioning if they want to be with you anymore if they catch you telling fibs.

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3. Being A Snooze

If you know Sagittarius’ you know that they want excitement, adventure, thrills, chills, and everything in between. They’re the type of partner you could ask last minute to go with you to a rave three towns over and they’ll be down like a clown!

The Sagittarius wants you to be as into their fun shenanigans as they are. Not taking a joke, staying home to watch TV, and never spicing up your life are good ways to get a Sagittarius man yawning and calling an Uber. 

And if they always have to be the one to suggest fun things and you participate begrudgingly, they’re going to sense that energy. You can rest assured; they’ll sense if you’re faking your invigoration! 

Go ahead and make it known what makes you excited. The Sagittarius wants to cater to this feeling! If partying isn’t your jam but a hike up the mountain is, the Sagittarius will be all over it.

But being the type of person with no interests who can’t have a laugh is one of the biggest Sagittarius man turn offs! 

4. A Stagnant Partner

One of Sagittarius turn offs is a partner who is not willing to expand their knowledge. Sagittarians, like their large-and-in-charge planetary ruler, Jupiter, are always reaching for the sky. They want to expand and grow with no limit in sight.

If you’re the type who is content with mediocrity and has no life goals (or at least none that you’ll ever take action on) then the Sagittarius is going to be pretty turned off by your lack of vision and drive.

A Sagittarius man is looking for a woman who will challenge her beliefs, break down walls, and get uncomfortable all for the sake of growth and expansion.

If you want to really get a Sagittarius’ attention, tell them that you’re thinking about taking night classes or that you’re interested in working on self-improvement. This will pique their interest and definitely turn them on!

Read next: 11 Clear Signs A Sagittarius Man Likes You More Than A Friend

5. Being Dense

A Sagittarius has tight ties to higher education, philosophy, and moralistic thinking. They envision a better world, and part of getting there in the mind of a Sagittarius is to use their noodle and exchange ideas with others. As a result, they don’t want to be surrounded by close-minded ladies!

A Sagittarius man is turned off by someone who just wants to talk about small-minded topics. He’ll want to scoot out to have discord with others who want to talk about broader topics.

It’s my advice that if you have any inclination towards topics of right and wrong, intelligence, and ethics, you bring them up around your Sagittarius. He’s going to be wildly impressed with your mind, and he won’t be shuffling for the door as he might be during conversations about petty topics!

Sagittarius men are nothing if not stimulating, interesting, and fun, and they are not such big fans of the opposite traits of bland, boring, and serious. Keep that in mind, and you’re in the clear!

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6. Routine And Predictability 

A Sagittarius man craves excitement in the bedroom, so a predictable and monotonous sex life may bore him. If you want to keep him in a relationship with you alone, you had better be prepared to keep the fires burning in intimacy.

When a Sagittarius man gets bored, he shuts off and would just rather not bother. He wants to explore new experiences and try new things in bed. He’d rather go without sex than deal with the same old boring position, time, day, night, and location.

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7. Possessiveness And Clinginess In Bed

While some men enjoy overly possessive behavior in the bedroom, this is a huge turn-off for a Sagittarius man. He wants to take the lead in the bedroom and will surely feel suffocated if his partner becomes overly clingy and possessive in the bedroom.

A Sagittarius man likes to enjoy pleasure in any way that he can. He’ll be up for just about any kinky type of game you want to play. You can do role-playing or wear costumes. You just may shake up his confidence by displaying your clinginess between the sheets. This is what scares a Sagittarius man away.

8. Avoiding Foreplay

A Sagittarius man is very imaginative and resourceful in bed. He loves role play and fantasy, and he wants to try everything out at least once. When he has a partner who is not happy to explore these things with him and who will not engage in foreplay, this will turn him off.

A Sagittarius man has a playful nature, so touching and teasing are his forte! If you are not ready for such an experience, he will slowly lose interest in you.

How To Turn On A Sagittarius Man Again

What usually works is engaging him in intellectual conversations to stimulate his mind. A Sagittarius man likes debating, and he likes mental challenges, so share with him your interesting ideas and passions.

Another thing is to plan exciting activities together. Go outdoors and try something thrilling. You can surprise him with a spontaneous trip that involves hiking and sightseeing. He would love that!

Light flirtation is not harmful or invasive. A Sagittarius man loves testing. Show him that you’re witty and that you have a sense of humor. Laughing together is something that turns him on.

A Sagittarius man is independent and wants a woman who values her personal space. He wants time apart and even wants you to have friends separate from each other. He won’t mind your unavailability, but he will mind you being needy or clingy.

Change your bad habits, and life will be better all around, while also avoiding turn-offs for a Sagittarius guy you like. By doing so, you would be well on your way to making a great impression on your Sagittarius man and allowing him to prioritize you.

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xoxo, Anna

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

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