Are you dating or looking to date a Sagittarius man? Well, chances are, you’re wondering how to get a Sagittarius man to open up emotionally, particularly when this breed of man is known for being the strong and silent type.
Sagittarius men really know how to have fun and see life as one big adventure. They are always on the go, living life fully and totally in the moment. But, they aren’t particularly emotional or sentimental.
As a matter of fact, it is actually quite hard for a Sagittarius man to open up and reveal his true feelings to anyone, but once you do this you will get your Sagittarius man madly in love.
There are ways to get your Sagittarius man to open up emotionally. Continue reading to find out more about all the secret ways to get him to open up to you and share his true feelings.
Do Sagittarius Men Open Up Easily?
If your Sagittarius man truly loves you, he will open up to you. He wants to talk to you about his hopes, dreams, desires, and what he thinks is important in life. Also, he will share what is bothering him and what issues he may have. Again, this is an attempt to make sure you are on the same page.
When he’s in love, he’s not playing around anymore. He’s serious and wants to get down to the nitty gritty, hence the serious conversations. Playing is fun, but when a Sagittarius man is ready to commit, he needs to know if this will work.
The more you two talk, the more he learns, and the deeper he’s likely to fall in love with you if you’re really someone that he can relate to or see a future with. When a Sagittarius man opens up to you, that simply means he trusts you and wants to share things with you.
How To Get A Sagittarius Man To Open Up Emotionally
1. Be Optimistic & Open For Anything
A Sagittarius man’s best quality has to be his glass-half-full attitude. He sees the best in every situation and knows how to keep hope alive, even when all seems lost. There is no way a Sagittarius guy would be caught in a relationship with a Debbie Downer.
He’s a yes-person and needs a partner who shares this same kind of positivity. This guy needs a lot of adventure to feel like he’s living his purpose and in his own authenticity. So, what better way to get close to him than to pack up your bag and go on a bit of a journey with him?
He’ll absolutely adore your open-mindedness and willingness to try something new. There is nothing he loves more than exploring and experiencing something he has never done before. Give him exciting memories with you in them.
When he’s having fun, all his barriers are down, and it is much easier for him to let go a little and be more vulnerable than usual. So, the best thing for you is to always be positive and optimistic around him. That is the sure way to open a Sagittarius’ heart.
2. Independence Is His Greatest Turn On
A Sagittarius man loves to be wild and free. His individuality is extremely important to him, so he really desires a partner who is just as independent as him. He gets easily scared off when a woman is too keen and too into him from the get-go.
Sagittarius men need a challenge. When he gets things too easily, a Sagittarius man tends to get bored very quickly, and he will lose interest in no time. This guy needs a woman who can challenge him—someone who he struggles to keep up with.
He loves it when his partner is full of passion and excitement for their lives and barely has time for him. I know this sounds counterintuitive, but trust me, a Sagittarius man needs to chase his partner, and the best way for you to get him to do that is to inspire him with all the wonderful things you are busy with.
The more he sees what a full and vibrant life you have outside of the relationship, the closer he is going to want to get to you. If you can stimulate him by just being free and your independent self, you have done most of the legwork already!
Playing hard to get isn’t a bad course of action when it comes to Sagittarius. But you have to be authentic about it. If you’re just pretending to be passionate and independent to impress him, it will not work. This man values integrity so much, so just be yourself, and you will notice him being more vulnerable and open towards you.
3. Be Open & Honest With Him First
For a Sagittarius man, integrity is more important than anything else. He loves honesty and the truth. Authenticity is really sexy to him, so when you can be really real with him, he’s more likely to open up to you.
Because he’s so warm and open-minded, you might be fooled to think the two of you are already close, but the truth is, it takes a very long time to get to his essence, and it will take a lot of patience from your side to see his true self revealed to you.
Your best bet is to be open and vulnerable with him first. Tell him about something that frightens you or something really embarrassing that happened to you. If you can show him that you don’t take life too seriously and aren’t afraid of showing him your true colors, he’ll be way more willing to share these parts of himself with you as well.
4. Show Him Your Spiritual Side
Sagittarius men are all about spirituality and discovering a deeper meaning to life. This is partly why he’s always on an adventure; he’s looking to gain knowledge and wisdom. You’ll often find a Sagittarius hanging around yoga studios or holistic retreats.
If you want your Sagittarius man to open up emotionally and get really deep and vulnerable with you, then it would be a great idea to talk to him about your own spiritual journey and some of the harder things you have had to deal with in your life.
Share with him some of your philosophies and conclusions. Hearing how much thought you have put into the meaning of life is going to set you apart from any other woman.
A Sagittarius man will more than likely open up to someone who he feels will understand the path he’s on without any judgment. Sometimes it’s good to lead the way when you get involved with a Sagittarius man.
5. Travel With Him
A Sagittarius man’s favorite pastime has to be his love for traveling. Nothing opens his eyes more than the possibilities that come from stepping on a plane and going on an adventure! He loves to learn about different cultures and see new and exciting places.
This has to be when most of his guards are down and he can be his true self, without exception. This is why it would be a great idea for you to go on a trip with him. Let him show you around! By the way, a Sagittarius man is a natural teacher, so let him show you what he knows.
Make sure to ask many questions and be your curious self. He’ll adore showing the world to you, and this is really the perfect opportunity for him to open up and share his true feelings. He might come to realize just how special you are to him.
It is not in every woman’s nature to be taken on a whim and to be open to going on an adventure. If you can be spontaneous with him, then he’s going to think you’re super cool and just the right woman for him.
This is a sure way for a Sagittarius man to, not only open up to you but to fall completely and madly in love with you.
How Do You Emotionally Connect With A Sagittarius Man?
The Sagittarius man is typically an optimistic type of guy. That being said, when he’s in love, he is very supportive of you, and you need to be supportive of him.
Help him see the optimistic side of life. You can tell him your viewpoint and ask him how he sees this relationship going, but ultimately, tell him that you’ll be there for him no matter what he does.
This is a very important secret to a happy relationship with a Sagittarius man. Talk to each other about important things. Make him feel like he’s in control because if there’s chaos in a situation, Sagittarius will stay away from it at all costs.
Once you have his mind, you will also have his heart. Keep the conversation alive; don’t sound needy or clingy. He wants no hard talk, no judging, and no accusations.
Be his rock and someone he can rely on when he is having a hard time. This is the right way to emotionally connect with a Sagittarius man.
If you’re struggling with finding ways to connect with your Sagittarius man on a deeper level, then you need to check out the 21 Questions to Ask a Sagittarius Man to Share His True Feelings and become emotionally available. These questions will set you on the right track with your Sagittarius and make you two feel connected like never before.
When A Sagittarius Opens Up To You — Does It Mean He Is In Love With You?
When a Sagittarius man opens up to you, you can be certain that he is in love with you. A Sagittarius man in love is very expressive, and he will easily connect with you on an emotional level.
You will get the sense that you belong to him, that he hates spending moments apart from you, and that there isn’t anything he wouldn’t do for you. He will make sure that you know how much you mean to him.
Sagittarius men may seem difficult to understand, but their needs are actually quite simple. All he really wants is freedom, independence, and a sense of individuality. Any woman who can be with him and still make him feel like he is free is the right one for him.
FAQ On Sagittarius Man Opening Up
Are you struggling to figure out what to do about your Sagittarius man and how to get him to open up emotionally? Well, luckily for you I have compiled questions that might come up in your relationship.
How Do I Make My Sagittarius Emotional?
If you want to make a Sagittarius man emotional, make him laugh. He loves a good time and wants to spend his time focusing on people who add joy to his life.
If he knows that you are a positive and optimistic person who is always going to respond with lightheartedness, then he’s definitely going to want more of you and will definitely want to connect with you emotionally.
You may also want to read: When A Sagittarius Man Goes Cold — Here’s Why
Are Sagittarius Open About Their Feelings?
As far as dating goes, Sagittarius men are rather guilty of looking at someone based on their looks instead of getting to know them first. He wants a beautiful partner, and this can cause him to ignore someone’s personality.
However, when he finds someone he loves, a Sagittarius man will open up about his feelings. He will be honest and straightforward.
How To Deal With A Moody Sagittarius Man?
Be really affectionate with him. Kisses and tenderness always work as a strategy. These are the types of things that make him feel “at home” with you.
This is also one of the ways to make up with a Sagittarius man if you have grown emotionally apart.
Stability is something that he craves, especially in love, and he strives to build it with the one he loves. Help him with this by doing your part and being the partner he needs. He needs a strong woman who knows how to lift her man up when he needs her.
Here’s more on how to show your love to a Sagittarius man <<
Make A Sagittarius Man’s Heart Yours…
You are probably wondering how to make a Sagittarius man feel better. Let him know the validity of his feelings.
It is OK to feel the way he feels, it is completely justified…
Be a fearless leader who shows her Sagittarius lover the way, and you’ll have a worshiper for life. Be his guiding light and help him move through the world with grace and love.
Don’t be afraid to take the plunge and build this beautiful life together.
The two of you can do anything because you are together. Enjoy your time with your Sagittarius man! This is a relationship meant for the record books!
But it is up to you to make it happen…
If you truly want to make a breakthrough and make this relationship a success, then you are going to have to work for it…
Learn more on how to soften your Sagittarius man here <<
Don’t be disheartened if he doesn’t commit or show his feelings right away.
Sagittarius men need to be sure they’re not being played. They need to be completely sure about the woman they are committing to because for a Sagittarius man, any relationship is for life and he needs to know 100% that you are in it with him.
Show him that you are serious, but just be patient because this may take a while.
Wishing you all the luck of the Universe.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,
Anna Kovach
Definitely likes to feel independent and free still! Together for over 3 years, always says to have faith and trust that in him, learning to, but not easy for an overthinking Capricorn! ? – but getting there and worth it! ❤️
Hi Diana!
Yes, Sagittarius loves to feel free in their lives even if they are in a relationship. The independence comes from the living on the present and being sure to appreciate their lives. Oh yes it would be hard for you but not impossible. Sagittarius is trustworthy unless he does something to breech it then that’s something entirely different. Good luck! You can do this.
Being a Taurus, it’s very difficult as my patience level is being tested, After no contact for a month, a message on the phone asking me to move on with mentioning that is the best for me, don’t know if iam making the right choice of deciding what to do next