Dating a Sagittarius is a thrilling experience! These men really know how to have fun and see life as one big adventure. They are always on the go, living life fully and totally in the moment. If you want a one-of-a-kind experience, then make sure to get yourself involved with a Sagittarius man.
The only little snag about being with a Sagittarius guy is that he isn’t particularly emotional or sentimental. Matter of fact, it is actually quite hard for him to open up and reveal his true feelings to anyone.
He’s more concerned about having a good time than getting too deeply sucked into his emotions. This can be quite hard, because as women we like to feel really intimate and close to our partners.
But not all hope is lost, and there are ways to get your Sagittarius man to open up and share his true feelings. Continue reading to find out more about all the secret ways to get him to open up to you in your relationship.
Be Optimistic & Open For Anything
A Sagittarius man’s best quality has to be his glass half full attitude. He sees the best in every situation and knows how to keep hope alive, even when all seems lost. There is no way a Sagittarius guy would be caught being in a relationship with a Debbie Downer.
He’s a Yes person and needs a partner who shares this same kind of positivity. This guy needs a lot of adventure to feel like he’s living his purpose and in his own authenticity. So, what better way to get close to him than to pack up your bag and go on a bit of a journey with him?
He’ll absolutely adore your open-mindedness and willingness to try something new. There is nothing he loves more than exploring and experiencing something he never has before. Give him exciting memories with you in them.
When he’s having fun, all his barriers are down, and it is much easier for him to let go a little and be more vulnerable than usual. So, the best thing for you is to always be positive and optimistic around him. That is the sure way for him to open his heart.
Independence Is His Greatest Turn On
A Sagittarius man loves to be wild and free. His individuality is extremely important to him, so he really desires a partner who is just as independent as him. He gets easily scared off when a woman is too keen and too into him from the get go.
Sagittarius men need a challenge. When they get things too easily, they tend to get bored very quickly, and they will lose interest in no time. This guy needs a woman who can challenge him, some who he struggles to keep up with.
He loves it when his partner is full of passion and excitement for their life and barely has time for him. I know this sounds counterintuitive, but trust me, a Sagittarius man needs to chase his partner, and the best way for you to get him to do that is to inspire him with all the wonderful things you are busy with.
The more he sees what a full and vibrant life you have outside of the relationship, the closer he is going to want to get to you. If you can stimulate him by just being free and your independent self, you have done most of the legwork already!
Playing hard to get isn’t a bad course of action when it comes to your Sagittarius. But you have to be authentic about it. If you’re just pretending to be passionate and independent to impress him, it will not work. This man values integrity so much, so just be yourself and you will notice him being more vulnerable and open towards you.
Be Open And Honest With Him First
For a Sagittarius man, his integrity is more important to him than anything else. He loves honesty and the truth. Authenticity is really sexy to him, so when you can be really real with him, he’s more likely to open up to you.
Because he’s so warm and open-minded you might be fooled to think the two of you are close already, but the truth is it takes a very long time to get to his essence and it will take a lot of patience from your side to see his true self revealed to you.
Your best bet is to be open and vulnerable with him first. Tell him about something that frightens you, or something really embarrassing that happened to you. If you can show him that you don’t take life too seriously, and aren’t afraid of showing him your true colors, he’ll be way more willing to share these parts of himself with you as well.
Your Spiritual Side Shouldn’t Be Hidden
One thing is for sure, your Sagittarius man is all about spirituality and discovering a deeper meaning to life. This is partly why he’s always on a constant adventure, he’s looking to gain knowledge and wisdom.
You’ll often find a Sagittarius man hanging about yoga studios or holistic retreats. Like I mentioned before, he’s looking for the answers to life, which means his path takes him to spiritual places.
If you want him to get really deep and vulnerable with you, then it would be a great idea to talk to him about your own spiritual journey and some of the harder things you have had to deal with in your life.
Share with him some of your philosophies and conclusions you’ve come to. Him hearing how much thought you have put into the meaning of life is going to set you apart from any other woman.
His best match is someone who thinks deeply about things and isn’t afraid to ask the tough questions about what it means to be alive. He likes to be challenged and have all his own theories questioned.
But most importantly, he enjoys knowing that he’s with someone who has depth and isn’t taking life for granted. He wants a woman who is willing to dive deep with him, so the sooner you share with him your own journey, the better.
He’s more than likely to want to open up to someone who he feels will understand the path he is on without any judgement. Sometimes it’s good when you lead the way when you get involved with a Sagittarius man.
Go Traveling With Him
A Sagittarius man’s favorite pastime has to be his love for traveling. Nothing opens his eyes more than the possibilities that come from stepping on a plane and going on an adventure! He loves to learn about different cultures and see new and exciting places.
This has to be when most of his guards are down and he can be his true self, without exception. This is why it would be a great idea for you to go on a trip with him. Let him show you around! By the way, a Sagittarius man is a natural teacher, so let him show you what he knows.
Make sure to ask many questions and be your curious self. He’ll adore showing the world to you, and this is really the perfect opportunity for him to open up and share his true feelings. He might come to realize just how special you are to him.
It is not in every woman to be taken on a whim, and to be open to go on an adventure. If you can be spontaneous with him then he’s going to think you’re super cool and just the right woman for him. This is a sure way for him to not only open up to you, but to fall completely and madly in love with you.
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My Final Thoughts About How To Get A Sagittarius Man To Open Up To You
Sagittarius men may seem complex and difficult to understand, but their needs are actually quite simple. All he really wants is freedom, independence, and a sense of individuality. Any woman who can be with him and still make him feel like he is free is the right one for him.
This isn’t an opportunity you want to miss out on, being with a Sagittarius man is fun and exciting. He’s someone that’ll keep you on your toes and give you the time of your life. So, follow these few hints on how to get him to open up to you and wait and see what happens!
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Wishing you all the luck and happiness in the world.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,