A Sagittarius Man Pulling Away: Why Is He Confusing Me?

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Is he acting differently than you're used to? You may want to learn about what to do when a Sagittarius man is acting distant or pulling away.

Sagittarius man pulling away is something I often hear my clients complain to me about. Women are always frustrated at how confusing Sagittarius men seem to be… Yes, it is, especially when you don’t understand why he pulls away.

It can often be a back-and-forth game with a Sagittarius man where one minute he is so hot for you, and the next he seems so distant. This would drive me absolutely crazy with confusion!

“Why is my Sagittarius man being distant? Why is he pulling away? Is it something I did wrong?” These might be a few of the questions you have asked yourself when a Sagittarius man switches his behavior towards you.

Don’t worry girls! I am here to help you when a Sagittarius man pulls away. So, if you’re interested in finding out what to do when a Sagittarius man is acting distant, keep reading to get all the helpful advice…

My Sagittarius Man Is Confusing Me With His Behaviour, Is It Something I’ve Done?

If you notice that your Sagittarius man is distant or pulling away from you, then it’s time for you to look at how you’ve been with him…

Have you tried to control him in any way or taken away his freedom? Have you been clingy or acting needy with him? These are all things that would turn your Sagittarius man off and make him feel you’re not the right one for him.

He can be forgiving to some of it sometimes, but if it keeps happening, he will start his own mourning process in letting you go slowly. Watch out because if he gets to that point, you may have a hard time winning his attention back.

If you’ve stopped doing thrilling things with him and have become more home-bound, your Sagittarius man might lose interest in you. He wants a woman who will keep up with him and always keep the fun flowing.

If you are doing any of these things or have without really realizing it, you can try your best to reverse it. Quickly find some exciting and fun things to do with him to get him to re-engage in the relationship.

Remind him of who you were when you two got together and that you just forgot who you were for a while but you’re ready to be you again as long as he’s still up for making it work.

You may also want to readWhy Does A Sagittarius Man Go Quiet? And What To Do About It

Why Do Sagittarius Men Act Cold And Distant?

Sagittarius men are extremely complicated. The way they live their life wanting freedom and independence can actually be quite isolating for them. They want a connection with women, but they’re also afraid of feeling caged.

This is why often in relationships; Sagittarius men will become distant and closed off. It is because they feel their independence and freedom are being taken away from them by being in a relationship.

This is extremely difficult for them and something they have to fight within themselves constantly. This isn’t a sign that are fond of sacrifices and compromise and this is why they struggle to settle down. These men usually only become calmer with age.

The last thing you should do is blame yourself for the way he behaves. This is just his nature and the best thing you can do is just let him be free so that he can see that you don’t want to control him in any way.

What To Do When A Sagittarius Man Is Distant Or Pulls Away

There are certain scenarios that may play out and it’s important for you to know how to deal with each of them.

If your Sagittarius man stops texting you or has backed off substantially, you might want to take a step back and stop reaching out to him. There is a reason your Sagittarius man is quiet and the last thing you want to do is push him away even further by blowing up his phone.

Keep things chilled and don’t let it bother you and you’ll see that he’ll quickly reappear again. A Sagittarius man dislikes clingy behavior and contacting him constantly via the phone will start to wear on him, thus, causing him to back off.

The most important thing you can do for yourself as well as your Sagittarius man is just to live authentically and make yourself happy. This is all he actually wants for you. He doesn’t want you people-pleasing and putting him on a pedestal.

If you can’t deal with your Sagittarius man pulling away all the time, I strongly recommend checking out my 30-day Sagittarius Man Love Challenge… It will set you on the right path with your hot Sagittarius guy. 

What NOT To Do When Sagittarius Man Goes Cold And Distant

Sagittarius man isn’t the one you want to ignore thinking he’ll chase you. There is a chance he might but there is also a larger chance he’ll lose interest and find someone else. He may chase in the beginning but not after he’s pulled back.

If your Sagittarius man is ignoring you, giving him the silent treatment isn’t likely to work in your favor. He’s more likely to just let you go and find someone else who seems to be far more exciting for his life.

If you’re thinking you can just pay him retribution, you may be making a huge mistake you won’t be able to take back. If your Sagittarius man is pulling away, you really have to look at the origins.

Look over your behavior as I mentioned and see if there is something you’ve been doing even subconsciously. Perhaps it’s something you can correct and get him to come back around.

If it’s nothing you’ve done and yet Your Sagittarius man is still distant, then you have to look at the other possibilities. If you know any red flags of what to look for when someone lies or cheats, you should pay attention to him.

It’s alright to give him some space sometimes. Giving him space with texts, phone calls, etc is right as long as you don’t cut him off entirely. If you do, he’ll think you’re done and so he’ll follow suit.

You never want to give him the impression that you don’t want to be with him because he will just let you go. This seems confusing because he doesn’t want someone clingy but he also doesn’t want someone super distant.

You may also want to read: Things To Keep In Mind When IGNORING A Sagittarius Man

My Final Thoughts On Distant Sagittarius Man…

There is truly only one way you can act when you have involved yourself with a Sagittarius man and that is to simply accept that this is a man who doesn’t care to be tamed. There is no controlling him. If he wants to come back, he will. If he doesn’t, he won’t. It is as simple as that.

He needs his freedom and he needs you to accept this about him. All he is doing is being himself and acting authentically and for a Sagittarius man, this is more worth to him than actual gold.

He needs to be with someone who can accept that he has to live the life of a man with freedom or else he will feel stifled and this would be even worse for your relationship.

You need to have a serious think with yourself and truly question whether you would be happy in a relationship like this. Just remember that you always have a choice in the matter and if you are feeling overwhelmed with your love for him, yet unsatisfied, then he might not be the man for you.

If you are STILL confused with a Sagittarius man sending mixed signals or pulling away, then you may want to connect with me…

Leave your question or share your situation in the comment section, and I’ll try my best to respond to every comment.

Does Your Sagittarius Man Become Distant After Intimacy?

Is your Sagittarius man pulling away or getting distant when you’ve just had a deep emotional connection?

Does he seem to disappear just when you thought he was getting closer?

Have you felt confused by his hot and cold behavior?

If so, then he might have an avoidant attachment style.

He could be Dismissive Avoidant and completely terrified of commitment…

Or he could be Fearful Avoidant and REALLY want commitment…

If he has either one of these attachment styles, you’re going to end up feeling extremely confused at times.

And both are caused by childhood trauma.

When you can see the scared little boy inside him that had to shut down his feelings if he’s dismissive avoidant…

Or have a parent not provide his needs consistently if he’s fearful avoidant…

It can make it easier to have empathy and compassion for his confusing and frustrating behavior.

But that won’t fix it.

And while advice on attachment styles can be helpful…

What you really need to stop this frustrating hot and cold cycle is to understand him better.

Thankfully, there is a simple system to TRULY understand how he ticks based on his astrology.

It will stop your Sagitarrius man from pulling away when you begin feeling closer.

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So no more crying yourself to sleep when he pulls away…

No more feeling incredibly confused.

And no more wondering what in the heck is going on with him…

Even if he has an avoidant attachment style…

Click here to turn things around with your Sagittarius man in 30 days or less <<

Sending you love,

Your sister and relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach

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Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

2 thoughts on “A Sagittarius Man Pulling Away: Why Is He Confusing Me?

  1. We’ve been FWB with my new Sag friend for a few weeks and then didn’t see each over for a little bit over a month. I texted him every day trying to make it fun, flirty, sometimes checking the boundaries what’s okay and what’s not (more serious texts). He said I didn’t let him breathe, he entered another relationship without telling me and when I asked him why he didn’t think it’s something he has to share with me, he blew of and said he doesn’t have to answer me and it’s not my business.

    1. Hi Kathrine!

      Texting him every day does give him the impression that you’re pushing too fast. Sagittarius like their freedom and texting every couple of days is sufficient. It seems you two are on a different page. You want more than he does and that’s why he’s feeling that you were smothering him. He didn’t think he needed to tell you anything as FWB typically means no strings attached. Yes, he should have let you know because why would you continue to be messaging someone or being intimate with someone who is already with someone else. Again, he’s feeling he doesn’t have to tell you anything because its only a FWB relationship, not a strong bonded commitment. I’m so sorry that this happened. If you need more information about Sagittarius man, you may want to check out my book “Sagittarius Man Secrets”.

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