When A Sagittarius Man Is Mad At You — What To Do?

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
He’s really angry with you, is cold, unresponsive, and isn’t returning your calls. What can you do when a Sagittarius man is mad at you?

There is no man wilder and more spontaneous than a Sagittarius man. These guys take their independence to another level and absolutely love their freedom. Which makes it pretty difficut to figure out when he is mad at you, or if he’s just being himself.

When a Sagittarius man is mad at you, you might not even notice because you’re so used to him going off and doing his own thing. This can be pretty annoying because you might never know how he is feeling about you. 

So what happens when a Sagittarius man is mad at you, but actually? You might be wondering what the signs are because you are dating him and can’t tell if he’s actually angry at you or not. This is so frustrating!

Sagittarius men don’t typically get angry, but when they do you need to know that this is a very rare occurrence. A Sagittarius man isn’t shy, he is actually quite expressive and says it like it is. 

However, he isn’t emotional in the sense that he is going to bare his soul to you. This isn’t his style at all. He’ll be honest with you of course, sometimes brutally so… 

But, if a Sagittarius man does get mad at you at the off chance, what can you expect? Well, keep on reading to find out the ins and outs of an angry Sagittarius man.

What Irritates A Sagittarius Man?

There is quite a bit that irritates a Sagittarius man, but nothing gets him going quite as much as someone, especially his girlfriend trying to take his freedom and independence away from him. 

He will fight against this in such a big way. This is when you will see the angry beast within him, and trust me you don’t want to! 

Some of the things that anger the Sagittarius would be saying he’s a liar, cheater, fake, a fraud, worthless, or lazy. Also if you’re lazy yourself and don’t take care of business, he’ll be highly annoyed.

If you treat him with rough words or are mean to him when he’s trying to be kind to you, he will resent you. Being crabby around him or taking your day out on him is unacceptable.

In the case that you ever nag him to do things or push him to do something he has no interest in, he will get pissed after awhile and snap at you or remind you in a not so nice way that he has no interest and to step off.

Clinging to him and not giving him breathing room will push him away also. He loves to snuggle and show affection but not all the time. Sometimes he wants his own space even while sitting next to you.

Constantly complaining or gossiping about others will piss him off. He will also get angry if you make fun of people who they don’t really know. Sagittarius is a justice seeker and will bring down brimstone on your for being so judgmental.

When A Sagittarius Man Is Mad At You

Sagittarius is relatively calm and easygoing. However, you can’t forget that this man is a fire sign and his sign is ruled by Jupiter. Fire signs are passionate and have quite a force. And Jupiter might be a friendly planet, but it also expands everything it touches. This can mean explosive emotions!

The Sagittarius man is very passionate, but his intense emotions don’t last very long. He isn’t someone who stays mad for long, but when he does get mad the whole world knows!

You might wonder, how do Sagittarius men act when upset, well he might raise his voice and show his temper, the best thing to get him to cool down is to give him some space as freedom is usually the thing that makes him feel like he can be in control. 

A Sagittarius man angry is not something you will see often, but when you do it can be a little scary. Those passionate emotions of his are very real! So just be warned!

If you have some misunderstanding with your Sagittarius man, you might want to talk to him because you want to fix it, but often the best thing you can do to fix it is to give him the space to calm down on his own. Trust me!

Sagittarius men have one of the most specific love languages of all Zodiac signs. I covered his entire Astrology love profile in my Sagittarius Love Language guide <<

I suggest you get your copy if you really want to master his love language and finally connect with him in the right way.

What Happens When A Sagittarius Man Is Mad At You — 5 Things To Keep In Mind

1. He Will Go Silent

It’s important to remember that even if a Sagittarius man is mad at you, he needs time and space to process his emotions – try not to take his silence personally

Try to give him the space he needs, and don’t take his silence personally. Let him work through his feelings before attempting to talk to him. Showing that you understand and respect his need for space and time can help him open up and talk to you again.

For a Sagittarius man, retreating to a calmer place is essential for him to regain his composure, and if he is feeling overwhelmed, it is important to recognize that staying in a difficult situation will only make it worse. 

Being aware of how your actions may be causing your Sagittarius man to pull away can help you find a more peaceful way to interact with him.

Related: When a Sagittarius Man Ignores You — Why He Does It and How to Respond

2. His Words Will Cut You

You must be mindful of how your actions could be pushing your Sagittarius man away, and find a better way to communicate with him. His words are sharp when he is upset, so you must brace yourself for the potential of hearing cruel remarks if he is angry.

His fiery personality can be difficult to handle as he tends to be very blunt with his words. He may also lash out at those around him, even if they have nothing to do with the situation. He may even go as far as to be cruel and callous to those around him when he is feeling upset. This can be very off-putting and can cause people to distance themselves from him when he is in this state.

This behavior is a common coping mechanism for people who are feeling overwhelmed and don’t know how to express their emotions in a healthy way. 

It allows them to project their anger and frustration onto someone else instead of facing the underlying issues. It can also be a way for them to gain some control and power in a situation in which they feel powerless.

3. He Will Be Blunt

Sagittarius men can be very honest and direct when they are angry, and they may not always be aware of how this could be hurtful or offensive to other people. Furthermore, in situations where they feel powerless, they may use their bluntness as a way to regain some sense of control and power.

However, it’s important to remember that this behavior is usually temporary and is a result of pent-up emotions. Sagittarius men usually prefer to stay calm and look at the situation objectively, and they will typically return to a more level-headed state once their emotions are under control.

Knowing how to handle a Sagittarius man when he’s angry is key to navigating the relationship. Respect his need for space and be willing to listen calmly when he’s ready to talk. This will help him regain his composure and give him the opportunity to explain his feelings without feeling judged.

4. He Will Avoid All Confrontation

When he’s feeling overwhelmed, being understanding and non-confrontational can go a long way in helping him feel more secure and heard. Confrontation is really intense for him and it is just easier for him to pretend as if nothing happened, or in the extreme, he might disappear completely. 

He is likely to put off difficult conversations and confrontations as he is more comfortable in moments of peace and harmony. He would rather not upset the balance of his relationships, so he would rather retreat or ignore a situation than talk it out.

This is often because he doesn’t want to hurt any feelings or cause any damage to the relationships he has. Instead, he’ll opt for a more passive approach to dealing with his anger and try to avoid any kind of confrontation.

Learn more about what happens if you ignore a Sagittarius man and why it’s the worst mistake you could ever make <<

5. He Won’t Hold A Grudge

A Sagittarius man is not afraid to move on and forgive, and he realizes that holding onto anger does nothing but damage himself and the relationships he values. 

He prefers to focus on the positive, and he’s more likely to let go of any hurt feelings and try to make amends than to dwell on them and make the situation worse.

A Sagittarius understands that holding onto anger and resentment will only create more stress and disharmony, and he wants to keep things peaceful and pleasant. He understands that everyone makes mistakes and that it’s better to forgive and forget than to bring up the past.

He believes in second chances and he is willing to put the past behind him when someone is genuinely sorry for their mistakes. So, a simple apology and a small gift are usually enough to make up for a mistake.

How Long Do Sagittarius Stay Mad?

A Sagittarius man generally cools off very quickly and doesn’t stay angry for long. He isn’t stubborn like a Taurus or a Leo. He will let things slide and revert back to his happy self. 

This is because they are a very independent sign, and their desire to be free of the situation is usually stronger than their desire to stay angry. They also have an optimistic outlook on life and prefer to focus on the positive instead of the negative.

He tends to not hold grudges and instead look for ways to solve the problem and move on. He often looks at the bigger picture of a situation and will be able to focus on the long-term benefits instead of being stuck in the present.

A Sagittarius man values relationships and will go out of his way to make sure that any damage caused by his anger is repaired. He’s capable of looking at the whole picture of a situation and will quickly assess what needs to be done to restore balance and harmony. 

He also has a great sense of humor which helps him to navigate difficult conversations and make people laugh even when the situation is tense.

What To Do When A Sagittarius Man Is Mad At You — 5 Ways To Calm Him Down

1. Give Him Space To Cool Off

Giving him some space allows him to get some perspective on the issue and gives him the chance to come to terms with his emotions without the distraction of additional conversation or conflict. 

This can help him to calm down and gain the clarity he needs to evaluate the situation and come to a resolution.

It can be difficult to know how to approach a Sagittarius man when he’s angry. He may be very good at masking his true emotions, so it’s important to give him some space and time to process his feelings. 

This will allow him to take a step back and gain the clarity and understanding he needs to evaluate the situation before responding.

He might need this space and time to regulate his emotions and to think through things logically and objectively. This will help him to better assess the situation, think through the consequences of his response, and come up with a solution that won’t just make him feel better in the moment, but will be beneficial in the long-term.

Discover more about specific Sagittarius man love language here <<

2. Try And Figure Out Why He Is So Mad

In other cases, it may not be as clear why he’s mad. In those instances, it’s important to take some time to think through his behavior and try to understand the root of his anger. 

By doing that, you can come up with a strategy to help him work through his anger and come to a resolution that will be beneficial in the long-term. It isn’t always necessarily your fault so don’t judge yourself too harshly.

When a Sagittarius man does get angry, it is usually because he feels like he was wronged in some way. He might be disappointed in something you said or did. Apologizing and admitting that you were wrong can help him to see that you acknowledge his feelings and can help him to forgive you faster.

Even if you haven’t done anything wrong, it’s important to show him that you understand how he’s feeling. By showing him that you care, you can create an atmosphere of understanding and forgiveness. 

It’s also important to consider external factors that may be impacting his mood, such as his work or family life. If you can identify the root cause of his anger, you can work together to find a solution.

3. Be Willing To Listen To Him

Showing him that you care and are willing to listen to him can help him to open up and express himself more freely. It can also help him to feel understood and appreciated, which can lead to greater trust and communication between the two of you. 

Additionally, by looking for external reasons for his anger, you can help him to identify and address any underlying issues that are contributing to his mood.

He needs time to process his emotions, as well as time to reflect on how his decisions will affect the relationship. On the other hand, discussing the issues can help him to gain clarity on the situation, and it can also help the two of you as a couple to come to a resolution more quickly.

This is because when a Sagittarius man gets angry, he needs to express himself and air out his grievances before he can calm down and be willing to listen. If you try to start a discussion before he has done that, it may only make him more frustrated and he won’t be willing to listen.

4. Take His Mind Off It

Distraction can be a good way to help him find a different perspective and reduce his stress. Suggest activities that he enjoys, such as going for a walk or playing a game. This can help him take his mind off his problems and give him the time and space he needs to process his feelings.

Doing something fun and engaging with him will help to distract him from his problems and can help to lift his mood. It can also allow him to express his feelings without having to talk about them, which can be helpful if he’s not ready to open up. 

It can also be a way for the two of you to bond, which can help him to feel supported and less alone in his struggles. Being able to do activities together can create a safe space where your partner can open up without feeling judged or uncomfortable. 

Doing activities together can also help build trust between the two of you, which can make it easier for him to talk about his feelings. He’ll see that you are someone he can rely on and that you are there for him no matter what.

5. Be Patient With Him And Let Him Be

Sagittarius men need their space and time to cool down and process things. When he’s ready, he will come back to you and will be interested in hearing your side of the story. It’s important to show him that you are understanding and willing to listen, as this will help to build a strong bond between the two of you.

His need for space is a sign of respect; it’s an indication that he values your relationship and is willing to take the time to think things through. Showing him understanding and patience will go a long way in showing him that you are invested in the relationship and that you are willing to work on it.

Will a Sagittarius man come back after a breakup? << here’s how to know for sure.

How To Talk To A Sagittarius Man When Mad

Listening to him and allowing him to express his feelings is a sign of respect and can help him feel heard and understood. It’s also important to give him space to cool down and not press him to talk about the situation until he is ready. 

Showing him empathy and understanding can help him see that you are invested in the relationship and open to working through any issues that arise.

This allows him to feel heard and understood, which can help him process his emotions in a healthier way. He may find it easier to open up to you and talk through his feelings when he feels that you’re validating his experience and not judging him. 

This can help foster a healthier dynamic in the relationship and lead to better communication in the long run.

Acknowledging his feelings is a great way to start. Ask him how he’s feeling and why and let him know that it’s okay to express his feelings and that you won’t judge him for whatever he says. 

This will create a safe space for him to talk about his feelings, and it will help him to work through them in a constructive and healthy way.

Why Most Dating Advice Can Be Dangerous With A Sagittarius Man…

Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches. They wanted to know if it would work with their Sagittarius man.

And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.


Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with a Sagittarius.

You see, Sagittarius men are VERY different than men of other signs. And if you use standard dating advice with a Sagittarius, it can backfire. He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again.

I don’t want that to happen to you. Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.

You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him…

So he’ll NEVER want to lose you. He’ll be wrapped around your finger… And it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either.

These phrases are the EXACT thing you need to turn everything around with him.

So… for heaven’s sake… DON’T listen to normal dating coaches! They give out the same advice for ALL men… which is absolutely insane.

Because your wonderful Sagittarius is NOT like other men… at ALL.

>> Go here now to find out the specific things your Sagittarius man needs to hear to melt his heart.

xoxo, Anna

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

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