If you’re in a casual relationship with a Sagittarius man and are wondering how to get him to commit fully, this is the guide for you. As a relationship Astrologer, I often receive questions like “My Sagittarius man is acting cold, how can I get him to commit to me?”
How to get a Sagittarius man to commit to you is one of the most frequent questions I get as an Astrologer. These men are very popular for a reason, but they are often quite impossible to tie down in a relationship. This is why I have decided to design this relationship advice guide with a list of the best advice to make a Sagittarius man commit without pressure.
Please continue reading to find out exactly what steps you need to take to make a Sagittarius man commit to you.
Sagittarius Man And Commitment — The Basics
The Sagittarius man is ruled by Jupiter and also rules the 9th house of the birth chart. That means that he’s the ruler of travel, excitement, and movement. Jupiter is the lucky planet that makes things happen.
Sounds just like the Sagittarius man doesn’t it? Jupiter is a motivational planet that is full of optimism. It’s very fitting of who the Sagittarius guy is. Now that you know that, you have some tools to use to get the Sagittarius man to love you.
His sign is mutable which means he’s highly adaptive and loves changes as well as spontaneity. This is what makes him live for the day and live as though every single day may be his last.
It also makes him appreciate variety and experience lots of different things in his life. Sometimes this includes dating around and having fun with friends including “friends with benefits”.
That doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to settle down or find “the one”. On the contrary… he’s always looking for the right one that will rock his world and make him want to settle down.
He’s open remember? That means he’s open to love, he’s open to commitment, and he’s open to what life may bring his way. This is what many people don’t understand about this sign.
They think he’s too much of a free spirit to ever settle down with one person. That’s not exactly what it’s like though. He would love to find the right person to be with for the rest of his days.
What he wants though, is someone who will live life with him full of adventure and spontaneous trips to wherever life takes them. That means that there is the right woman out there for him.
What Makes A Sagittarius Man Want To Commit?
To know what makes a Sagittarius man want to commit requires knowing what he actually wants in a partner. Here is a list of things that the Sagittarius man loves in a long-term partner:
- Go with the flow attitude
- Spontaneous and optimistic
- Adventurous and excited about life
- Experimental
- Willing to get dirty
- Outdoorsy
- Optimistic
It seems like quite a list, doesn’t it? However, if you are already this woman, then this should be no big deal for you! If you aren’t this woman, there is always wiggle room if you’re willing to compromise for such an intelligent and worldly catch!
Learn more about the signs a Sagittarius man likes you more than a friend <<
How To Get A Sagittarius Man To Commit
1. Love Without Confinement
What a Sagittarius wants is love that has no boundaries. He doesn’t want to feel pressured, held down, or chained up. While he may enjoy it for sex play, he doesn’t want to feel it in life.
The last thing he would ever want is a partner trying to force him to stay home all the time, not have adventures, and not be able to travel. He doesn’t want to be told what to do or when.
He wants a partner who is free like he is. Trust is a HUGE factor in whether a Sagittarius man will commit or not. You will have to prove to him that you’re willing to be with him but without constraint.
You have to trust him in knowing he’s not going to leave you for someone else nor will he cheat. If you don’t have that faith in him then there is no hope for a relationship. He won’t stay with you long if you accuse him of things.
If you have something to say though, say it! Don’t try to conceal your feelings or lie to him EVER. He won’t tolerate it. Be careful not to ever insult him either as far as what his beliefs are or he will rain fire on you.
What he believes is very important to him and he’s probably not up for compromise in that department. Be open to him and know you cannot change him. If he senses you trying to change him, he will definitely take off.
If you’ve been struggling with how to capture his heart, I strongly recommend checking out my 30-day Sagittarius Man Love Challenge… It has all the secrets to becoming his dream woman in no time!
2. Let Him See That You’re “The One”
In a Sagittarius man’s mind, the one for him is going to be somewhat of an active woman who is a bit of a tomboy type. He wants someone who will go outdoors and do fun activities.
You need to let him see that you are indeed spontaneous and not fearful of change. Roll with it, go with the flow, and let him see that you are not rattled by randomness at all.
Understand his need for freedom and let him have it. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t make plans or make dates for the two of you but I am saying, if he wants to do something alone, let him.
You basically have to prove that you’re not going to be someone that will make him feel imprisoned if he does commit to you. If he senses that you will then he will not give you his heart. Keep that in mind.
If you’re not the type of woman who handles change easily, doesn’t like to travel or have adventures, and doesn’t like that he takes off often then he may not be the right guy for you.
Don’t commit to him unless you’re sure that you can handle the change and flow of this guy’s life. Don’t ever be needy or clingy either or he’ll bail out. He wants a woman who is independent and doesn’t need him.
He wants a woman to be optimistic and inspiring in life. If you can be a positive driving force that allows him to have his personal space or time then you just may be who he is looking for.
3. Be In The Moment With Him
One of the best and worst aspects about a Sagittarius man is his ability to be present in every moment. It is the best because he will never be expectant of anything and he just goes with the flow.
However, this can get hard when he can never think ahead or make promises for the future. This is a terrifying aspect for most women who want love and commitment. This is a difficult man to fall for, especially if you’re a woman who is looking for a stable lifestyle.
However, if you yourself have an adventurous spirit then being with a Sagittarius man might not be such a bad idea. He might be the one man who understands the wildness living inside of you and instead of trying to tame you, he’ll be the one guy who will embrace this about you.
If you want a Sagittarius man to commit to you, then you are going to have to be okay with going with the flow and not having too many expectations of him. As soon as you give him rules, he is going to want to rebel and run away.
Give him all the freedom he needs, and without question, he will always run back to you. You need to understand that a relationship with a Sagittarius man is always going to have to be an unconventional one. If you can accept this about him, then you will be happy.
Here’s more on Sagittarius man in love (when a Sagittarius man says he loves you) <<
4. Be Spontaneous
All a Sagittarius man truly needs in his life to be happy is spontaneity. There is something about living on the edge of his seat that gives him tremendous fulfillment in his life. He loves having no plans and letting life just unfold naturally and on a whim.
A Sagittarius man deeply desires a woman by his side who isn’t afraid of this kind of lifestyle. A woman who will allow him the greatest freedom in the world, because if she does, he’ll always come back to her.
Think to yourself, are you the type of woman who needs structure and routine to feel secure? Or are you a bit of a daredevil who likes to live life as it comes as this tends to be more exciting? If the latter is true, then being with a Sagittarius man will come easily to you.
However, if you are the other option, you might want to rethink your attraction to your Sagittarius man and if he would be good for YOU in the long term. His unpredictable lifestyle might be a bit too much for you to handle.
That being said, if you want to get out of your comfort zone, then being with a Sagittarius man might be the best option for you. He will test you and push your boundaries, but you will definitely never be the same again.
If you show your Sagittarius man your willingness to be open and to explore further than what you already know then the chances are good that he will be more inclined to want to commit to you.
5. Have Patience And Give It Time
Although a Sagittarius man lives his life at a rapid speed, he is in no hurry to settle down and form a long-term relationship. He has so much he wants to achieve, and being in a relationship isn’t always at the top of his priorities.
The best thing you can do if you find yourself in this situation with a Sagittarius man is to show him your patience and that you are in no rush to want to make him settle down. He needs to come to this conclusion on his own.
It is definitely best when a Sagittarius man chooses to be with someone without any coercion from her side because he absolutely hates feeling manipulated into doing anything. A Sagittarius man needs to make up his own ideas for them to work truly.
So if you’re itching to get into a relationship with a Sagittarius man, then I would suggest taking a deep breath and giving him all the patience he needs. If he feels like he is under pressure, then he is never going to make the move to want to be with you.
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Whatever your career or job happens to be, a Sagittarius man wants to hear how good you are at your job and how successful you are with it. He tends to have a drive to live his passions and make money at the same time.
If you’re really good at artwork, show it to him and tell him all about what drove you to do it, make it, paint it, or write it. Sagittarius is interested in knowing what drives you.
This helps get your optimism about life through to him. It also shows him that you give your life your all. He needs this in a partner.
If taking some classes or workshops is on your agenda, it’s worth letting him know ahead of time. He may be interested in joining in, but if not, he’ll be very happy for you to try them on your own.
Show him any awards or certificates you have for all the efforts you’ve put in over your life whether it’s in sports, academic pursuits, or projects you’ve completed.
Your Sagittarius guy wants to hear all about any adventures you’ve had in your years. He also wants to hear where you’d still like to go and things you’d love to experience.
These things fuel his desire to want to take you on trips or set up some really exciting dates with you. This is his favorite topic of conversation. What is your dream?
What list do you have of places you’d like to visit? Do you have a dream to move out of the country? Talk to him. He’ll absolutely be welcoming of this kind of conversation.
To make a Sagittarius man commit to you isn’t hard if you show him the side of yourself that really wants to get out there and accept changes.
You might even bring up a location you’d like to take him to. He’ll be all ears on what you two can do there. He’ll probably want to know how soon you can go.
Sagittarius Man Commitment Issues — Why Can’t Sagittarius Men Commit?
I often get asked why can’t Sagittarius commit, and the answer is quite simple, they absolutely love to be free. Sagittarius are free spirits who want to live their own life. They are independent and don’t want to be tied down.
For a Sagittarius man, the idea of commitment scares them and makes them think that they would be trapped in a box. It is much easier for these men to stay unattached than actually discover the beauty of a committed relationship. They are the ones missing out.
You might also want to read: How To Make A Sagittarius Man Obsessed With You
Become His Dream Woman In 30 Days (Or Give Up Forever…)
Looking to become the woman of your Sagittarius man’s dreams, but getting frustrated with how slowly things are progressing Do you wish you had a magic ball to see into the future to KNOW for sure if he’s “The One” for you?
It’s time to stop trying to figure him out and start taking action!
Well, I have fantastic news for you!
There is a simple system that takes only 30 days and will draw him to you like a magnet, getting him to fall deeply in love with you. But if he isn’t your soulmate, you will know for sure and can move on.
He WILL respond quickly to this approach if he IS the one for you, and if he doesn’t, you will know in 30 days so you don’t waste any more precious time.
We all know that Sagittarius men can be stubborn, leaving you waiting and wondering for a long time…
But with this program, you’ll have the tools to get him to commit quickly.
And if he doesn’t, you’ll know he isn’t the right man for you and can set him loose to find your true soulmate.
So no more waiting around or playing it cool. It’s time to get your Sagittarius man to step up or move on.
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XOXO, Anna
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