Sagittarius men are one of a kind. No one else has as much exuberance and optimism quite like him! He lives large and always ready for an adventure and his next exciting experience.
It’s rather tricky bagging one of these independent creatures. What makes them tick, and what little tricks can you use to get him totally obsessed with you? Continue reading to find out more!
7 Things That Make A Sagittarius Man Obsess Over You
1. Be As Spontaneous As Possible
A Sagittarius guy never follows the rules. He is a libertarian through and through. He lives by his own accord and is always shaking things up (for better or worse).
He cannot stand boredom and needs to always be on the go. He finds women who are spontaneous, incredibly exciting, and very sexy.
Why not call him up in the middle of the night and suggest going for a midnight swim? Or a last-minute road trip. He’s definitely the type of guy that will take you up on this!
Showing him how free-spirited and wild you can be is a sure way to get him quite attracted to you. He’s turned on by confident, adventurous types and wants to have fun with the woman he is with.
He wants a woman who is independent and isn’t waiting around for him. Being too predictable can be a rather big turnoff for him.
2. Take An Interest In His Idealism
Sagittarius men are incredibly idealistic. Their dreams are big and expansive, and you can often find them brooding over the universe and what it means to be alive. They are the philosophers of the Zodiac, that is for sure.
Taking an interest in what he has to say will get you very far in his books. He really enjoys sharing his knowledge with whoever will listen to his ideas. He’s a natural teacher, so it’s really meaningful to him when he can impart his wisdom to his lover.
Ask him big philosophical questions that you yourself have been wondering about. This will show him you too have an interest in the universe and give the two of you something to talk about.
He loves to talk about big ideas and social issues. Ask him about how he feels about politics, his views on religion and spirituality, or even what his favorite book is.
He is very keen to share his opinions, and it will mean a lot to him if you take an interest in what he has to say. Sagittarius men like to be heard and valued for their ideas.
Everybody likes to hear about themselves, and he is definitely no different! Giving him a thoughtful ear to listen to will really boost not only how he feels about himself, but how he feels about you. This is a sure way to get him obsessed with you!
3. Be Direct & Honest
The Sagittarius male is pretty straightforward. He isn’t the type of guy who has time to play mind games and really appreciates honesty in his life. If you are interested in him, tell him directly. He believes in getting to the point – no messing around.
These men are pretty blunt, so whatever you do, don’t beat around the bush – say exactly what you are thinking. They are straightforward and expect you to be as well.
It might feel a little out of your comfort zone at first, but if you can be open and honest about your feelings, it shows him you’re willing to take risks.
Confidence and bravery are a big turn on in his book. He doesn’t want a wallflower, but a strong and independent woman who isn’t afraid to express her opinions. Assertiveness is a quality he really admires in a woman.
4. Show Him Your Smart Side
A deep thinker like a Sagittarius man needs someone who can keep up with him intellectually, especially if you want to be in his life long-term.
He’s incredibly sexy and knows it. He has no qualms about getting someone’s number or having a one-night stand. This is the type of man who can get any woman he wants, but when he’s thinking long-term, he wants a woman with substance.
Someone who can stimulate his mind and most importantly, keep up with him and has vast intelligence. He’s on a constant journey to pursue knowledge, so show him what you know, trust me, he’ll definitely be impressed!
He’s extremely open-minded and forward thinking. If he gets even a whiff that you have even the slightest bit of narrowmindedness, then he will disappear in an instant. Nothing is sexier to him than a woman who can think deeply and has a mind of her own.
He’s the type of guy who is acutely aware that beauty fades, but a beautiful and curious mind is forever. A pretty face can grab his attention, but it is what is inside that keeps him around for longer.
5. Go Travelling With Him
There is nothing a Sagittarius man loves more than travelling. It ticks all his boxes. Not only does he get to go on an adventure, but exploring foreign countries is a way for him to expand his mind. He has an unquenchable thirst for travel.
Always have your passport ready when he is around. He wants to see as much of the world as what he can. You should make it a priority to mention to him which countries you would like to visit and ask him what his dream destinations are.
This will get his cogs turning and show him your adventurous spirit. Why not take the initiative and book tickets for the two of you to go on a trip together?
This will mean more to him than you might imagine! He’s always up to experience unknown places, and what better way to do it than with a lovely lady like yourself?
Travelling with him will cement a certain amount of intimacy that isn’t always possible in your hometown. There is nothing quite like travelling to build trust and to show each other your true colors.
6. Be A Little Indulgent From Time To Time
Yes, your Sagittarius man is always on the go, running towards his next adventure. He knows how to party and work hard, but he also really knows how to relax.
He’s really good at indulging and enjoying the finer things in life. If you can cook, make him your most decadent meal. He’s pretty sensual, and what is more sensual than a home cooked meal made by the woman in his life?
It is a wonderful way to get him to relax and show him how you feel. Yes, he is very independent, but secretly he likes it when someone takes care of him.
Crack open a bottle of wine and show him how chilled you can also be. Being relaxed is a delightful contrast to the times when he is on the go.
He’s likely to feel relieved he doesn’t need to constantly entertain you for you to be content to spend time with him. Show him you can be adventurous, but also that you know how to let go and relax.
7. Practice Your Spiritual Side With Him
It makes sense that a deep thinker like your Sagittarius will have a spiritual side. With all that questioning of the meaning of life, it is no surprise that he’s interested in getting in touch with his deeper purpose.
If you have any rituals or self-care practices you partake in, it is a brilliant idea to include him in them. If you do yoga, get him to join you. If you have any meditation techniques, be sure to share them with him.
There is a deep intimacy two people can reach when they share something that is spiritually sacred. So don’t be afraid to show this part of yourself to him, I can bet you he will welcome it in with open arms. He’s looking for depth, and if you can give it to him, then it is a win-win situation.
He isn’t the type of guy to shy away from the weird and the mystical. Frankly, he finds it fascinating. So, when you share this part of yourself with him, don’t be surprised if he keeps coming back for more!
Sagittarius men are really special! They will give you the time of your life and their optimism is bound to rub off on you. Nothing is impossible in their eyes, and this positive mindset is infectious.
The secret to keep him interested and obsessed throughout your relationship is to be yourself and embrace your adventurous side.
Have you ever dated one of these wonderfully wild men? What was your experience and which tips would you suggest? I would love to hear your thoughts below in the comment section.
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