Lucky you, you’ve bagged one of the most elusive signs in the Zodiac, a Sagittarius man! These men are freedom-loving and commitment-phobic, so you must be one special gal! Now that you have your Sagittarius man, you might wonder how to show him that you love him.
It is not always easy to know how to keep a Sagittarius man happy because they seem to just keep themselves happy by living on their terms. But trust me, there are a few simple things you can do to have him swooning and coming back to you.
If you’ve ever wondered what you can do to show your Sagittarius man how much you love him, then you’ve come to the right place. This article will tell you precisely how to keep your Sagittarius man feeling loved and appreciated.
How Do You Show A Sagittarius Man You Love Him Without Saying It?
Sagittarius men take their relationships less seriously. He wouldn’t be dating you if he didn’t think you had long-term potential, but it would take some time to get there.
He’s not looking for a relationship that’s going to blow over quickly; he’s looking for the real deal. But how do you make a Sagittarius man feel loved?
If you want him to feel really loved, then your best bet is to make him certain that the way you feel about him is just as serious. Prove to him your commitment and dedication to the relationship.
It’s really important that you show him that you’re trustworthy and not see him as an option or a means to an end. One thing he certainly won’t tolerate is adultery, so keep your friendly flirting with other guys to an absolute minimum.
You don’t want to give him any cause for suspicion, because the truth is, he’s rather afraid of getting his feelings hurt. That is why it takes a lot for a Sagittarius man to want to commit to a woman because he really needs to be sure.
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How To Make A Sagittarius Man Feel Loved (7 Sweet Ways)
1. Give Him Lots Of Space
Sagittarius men have to be wild and free. These guys aren’t built to sit at home and live a life of domesticity. He needs adventure and finds a lot of purpose in exploration and experimentation. He lives by his own rules, and no one has authority over his comings and goings except for him.
He’s willing to try everything at least once because he’s after the feeling and thrill of a novel experience. Whatever gets his adrenaline pumping and keeps his sense of curiosity awakened is the best thing for him.
One of the best things you can do to show your Sagittarius man how much you love him is to let him roam free. He doesn’t appreciate it when his girlfriend always asks him where he is, what he is doing, and with whom.
He needs his space to breathe and feel like you trust him enough to be who he wants to be without judgment and without feeling like you have stuck him in a cage where he can’t escape. This will never fly with him.
Give him all the space and freedom he needs, and he’ll reward you with the best adventures a girl could ask for. In the end, this mainly has to do with trust. When you don’t allow him his freedom, he perceives this as you not being able to trust him and he’s just not okay with this.
2. Appreciate Him In Unexpected & Outlandish Ways
A Sagittarius man’s motto in life is: go big or go home. He does nothing in small measures and expects his life to be one big adventure. A Sagittarius man loves grand gestures and grandiosity. He wants to feel like he’s larger than life. He is, and he wants you to know this!
You know how most people say “It’s the thought that counts,” when receiving gifts with a Sagittarius man, that’s never the case. He responds the best to gifts that are extraordinary. He likes creativity and a woman who is willing to do something crazy for him.
There is part of Sagittarius man’s personality that is quite freaky and unexpected. The more you embrace this part of yourself, the more likely he is to feel like the two of you are at the same speed. So do something wild and out there for him. Trust me, he’s going to love it.
3. Show A Genuine Interest In His Hobbies
A Sagittarius male is a big thinker. His thirst for knowledge is unquenchable, he’s always open to learn new things and understand the true meaning of what it means to be alive. This is why he’s always trying out new hobbies or taking an interest in a new subject.
He just wants to absorb all the information available to him. He gets really turned on and feels so seen when the woman he is with takes a genuine interest in the things he cares about. If you really want to make him feel appreciated, then show him how much you care about what he has to say.
Ask him about what he’s currently busy with, and what he’s interested in – but be really sincere. One thing a Sagittarius really hates is insincerity. So, make sure that you’re actually interested in what he has to say.
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4. Ask His Advice Or About Something He Knows A Lot About
Being with a Sagittarius man is a lot like being with a wise sage. This guy has a wealth of knowledge at his disposal. He’s extremely curious and always learning something new through study or his lived experiences.
One of his best qualities is the natural ability he has to share what he knows with others. He’s a natural teacher and really thrives on being in that role. He wants to spread his awareness and knowledge to the world.
Asking him for advice on something or getting him to talk about something he knows a lot gets him really excited. Once he sees the opportunity to speak about what he loves, it will be difficult to get him to stop.
There is a side to him that really enjoys being the center of attention, and when he’s in this role, you’ll immediately see him glowing with pride and excitement. He’ll feel really loved and appreciated that you care enough to ask him about his opinion.
5. Gift Him With Something Spiritual
A Sagittarius man needs a lot of grounding. His head is always in the clouds, theorizing and philosophizing about the universe. This is likely why he’s so interested in God, religion, or a greater power that binds us all together.
He’s the type of guy to go on spiritual retreats that involve yoga and meditation or to take himself on a pilgrimage to understand himself better. He wants to gain a deeper insight into himself and his motivations.
If you were to give your Sagittarius man something that will probably connect him to a deeper part of himself, he’ll really feel loved and special, and recognize that you listen to what he has to say.
But by gifting him with a yoga package or a session with an energy healer he will really feel seen by you and know that you’re a keeper. So, keep your ears open about the spiritual modalities he talks about. This will give you an insight into what he needs.
Here’s more on how to surprise a Sagittarius man (best gifts for a Sagittarius).
6. Go On Adventure With Him
A Sagittarius male’s one true love has to be his love for travel and adventure. His greatest aim in life is to see the world and all the wonderful things different cultures have to offer. This guy wants to experience it all.
One of the best things you could ever do to make him feel really loved and appreciated is if you were to go traveling with him and see the world with him. This will show him that you take an interest in the things he loves.
It’s also a brilliant way for the two of you to share a sacred experience and get closer to each other. You’re more than likely to see your Sagittarius man at his happiest when he’s off on an adventure to see the world.
Nothing fills him with more excitement and wonder than seeing the world. It’s an opportunity for him to gain a fresh perspective and open his mind to new possibilities. His absolute favorite thing in the world.
So, if you want to show your Sagittarius man just how much you love him, my suggestion is to book something for the two of you ASAP! But make sure it’s the sort of adventure where you could both learn something new. Your Sagittarius guy isn’t looking for luxury or a five-star hotel, he wants an experience he can grow from.
7. Give Him A Good Time In The Bedroom
Sagittarius men are incredibly kinky, probably some of the most adventurous men in the bedroom. It is no surprise that this man likes to get down and dirty between the sheets!
Because he’s so stern and serious in his day-to-day life, he needs a release and finds the best way to get this is through sex. This is where he can be really free and let all of his inhibitions go. So, it would be best for him to have a lady who is quite adventurous and isn’t shy in the bedroom.
You can make your Sagittarius man feel loved by being open to exploring your wilder side and indulging in his darker side, which definitely involves a few kinks and taboos. Ask him what his fantasies are and try to reenact them as best as possible.
Of course, don’t do anything that feels too much for you or anything you don’t feel ready for, because it is important to know and understand your own limits. But if there is a sexual act you feel curious about, you could mention it to him and see what his reaction is.
He’ll be very excited to know that you’re willing to be open and try something new. This is a sure way for your Sag guy to feel very turned on! Here’s more on how to please a Sagittarius man in bed.
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8. Be Confident In Yourself
You will not get his attention if you don’t know your worth. A Sagittarius man likes a woman who is sure of herself and doesn’t carry any drama. He likes a woman with a good sense of reasoning and maturity. Many Sagittarius men seek out older women for that reason.
So, you want to ensure he feels safe enough to open up with you. That means asking him questions and letting him talk, listening carefully, and never pushing him farther than he’s ready to go emotionally. Once he sees you’re not going to judge him, he may come that much closer.
A Sagittarius man needs to feel your confidence and know you stand with two feet on the ground. He will just know you love him if you radiate confidence and are sure of your choices.
9. Be His Best Friend
You don’t need to turn the seduction on high to let a Sagittarius guy that you love him. You just have to be friendly. That doesn’t mean you can’t be flirty—in fact, you should throw your entire flirty arsenal at him!
He’ll love that you’re charming him as much as he’s charming you. Plus, this will feel fun to him, and fun is what he loves! Remember, a Sagittarius guy wants to be with a woman who is his best friend first, then his lover.
For a Sagittarius man, talking is intimacy. The more you speak, the closer he’s going to feel to you. He’s not about the touchy-feely game; he’s about the mental connection.
When you make communication your number-one love, he’ll be all yours. And the best thing about this is that it will never push your Sagittarius man away! Sharing your ideas, thoughts, and opinions with him will make him that much more interested in you.
10. Be Gentle And Kind
Sagittarius men are fire Zodiac signs! Their reckless nature in relationships means they prefer and appreciate subtlety, calmness, and tenderness when it comes to the dance of love.
Keeping things gentle goes a long way with a Sagittarius man. It helps to open his heart up and doesn’t make him feel assaulted or like you’re pressuring him into anything.
When you say “I love you,” let it be with the most honeyed voice and tone you can manage, in a special, quiet moment spent intimately together.
Be gentle and non-aggressive. Don’t demand an immediate response. In other words, be your most feminine self. It will turn his legs to rubber!
11. Cuddle With Him
Last but not least is the option of taking the plunge when you’re snuggled up in bed together after you’ve gotten serious. You can combine everything and let him know tenderly once you know his armor is melted (maybe after that lavish date?).
Make it just between the two of you. You don’t need to shout it from the rooftops for this man to get it. And he’s so much more likely to respond well when you’re in that space of deep intimacy, where he feels safe and secure enough to open up to you.
Telling any man you love him is scary, but trust your intuition, ladies. We seldom feel compelled to tell someone we love them if we don’t sense that they love us back.
And even if laying it all out there for your Sagittarius man feels like a risk, it can be a very rewarding risk—one that will reap plenty of great returns in the future. The longer you are with this guy, the safer he feels and the more devoted he can be.
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Sweet Things To Say To A Sagittarius Man To Make Him Feel Loved
Loving a Sagittarius man and telling him how hot or sexy he is, is a good place to start. It helps to touch him while saying these things. Look him in the eyes and touch his arm or his thigh, or kiss him on the neck.
A little light possessiveness also does wonders—try “my sexy guy.” It will make him feel important and special to you.
Here is how to show a Sagittarius man you love him. Try some of these phrases:
- You are the light of my life. Your optimism is so inspiring.
- Your love makes me feel alive and beautiful.
- You lift me up. I want to spend my forever with you.
- You are so strong and independent. I love you more and more every single day.
Even if they seem overly simple or even a little cheesy to you, give them a shot! A Sagittarius man loves to hear words like these from his love.
When he feels good and knows how much you appreciate him in your world, he’ll then give you more to feel good about. This includes romancing you and treating you like his queen again.
Being with a Sagittarius man is definitely a one-of-a-kind experience. This man is like no one else you have ever met. He’s the guy who’s always going to want to be on an adventure and keen to learn more about the world.
If you’re looking for a bit of a rollercoaster ride and a relationship that will thrill you to no end, then a Sagittarius man is just the right guy for you. You can show him how much you love him by being open to all kinds of adventures.
The 14 Words That Give Instant Youth To Your Relationship With A Sagittarius Man…
Have you ever heard of a 14-word elixir that can rejuvenate relationships with a Sagittarius man and grant eternal love?
Just as communication is the most important aspect of a relationship, one of the most important aspects of communication is knowing how to overcome disagreements and misunderstandings.
I knew many women who tragically failed with Sagittarius guys just because they underestimated the importance of talks.
Some didn’t talk with them enough and some talked too much… Others talked just enough, but they said a few wrong things here and there which made their lovers sulk and brood.
Let me tell you, you never want to leave a Sagittarius guy sulk because of something that you said.
It’s best to resolve any such conflict ASAP because his negativity could expand ad infinitum until one day he just snaps and decides that you’re not the one for him and that it’s all over.
The worst part is that 9 out of 10 times with a Sagittarius, women are not even aware that they’ve said something wrong… or missed saying something that he expected them to say.
He doesn’t give off any signals when he’s hurt or disappointed. Instead, he usually just becomes quiet… but women never notice it. Even if they do, they never realize what to do in time.
That’s why whenever a disagreement occurs, it’s best to diffuse it with 14 words that could save your relationship.
Sending you love,
Your friend and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach